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Men who lie about being gay/ abused by a woman as a child?
Idk a few years ago a guy lied about being gay to gain my trust and now recently. I guess this is more common now?
And the past 4 months? 3 different men all told me very soon after meeting me that they had been sexually abused by women.
Guy #1 said a woman raped him and gave him chlamydia, but idk these guy love bombed me and told a bunch of lies, he said this on a casual Date getting drinks
Guy #2 said his mother sexually abused him as a child and we went on 2 dates and my intuition thought he was lying about everything finally caught him over exaggerating or being extremely delusional about money, he also kept doing intense eye gazing? To the point where it seemed to be a PUA tactic
Guy #3 told me he was gay and a women abused him as a child since he was 2 years old and he has CPTSD he gave such creepy vibes at times but we met at a religious event/ retreat
He then the last night tells me he was attracted to a trans man (a girl) in high school and that she falsely accused him of rape and that he doesn’t like rape? And laughs so creepy I also caught him glaring 3x times at me like a full on psychopath
I guess with men under 30 claiming women are sexually abusive is a lie that goes well with modern feminism? There’s a reason most parents don’t let men babysit children. I really hate this I act compassionate at first and fall for it but i know there lying so disgusting and very manipulative. I can’t find anything about this online only about men lying about being victims of DV
I just don’t know how to process this and feel like such a target for creeps
If a man you don't really know tells you shit like this it's a sign to cut him off. Victims of SA doesn't flex with it to strangers. Would you tell a man you just met you were raped?
There's very simple reason why they say things like this: they are trying to see if you ignore obviously socially unacceptable behaviour ( trauma dumping to near strangers) and put down a story that will be their alibi for doing more unhinged things (like cheating on you). Don't even start me with how wonderful emotional blackmail material this is going to be, because trust me, you will be hit "you are just like my rapist!" If you try to set up any boundary.
Tldr: 🚩, avoid, abort mission.