I would just casually mention a couple doing it that way in a conversation and see how he reacts. Is he shocked? Does he think it's a good idea and how it should be? Does he say would never do that?
"Oh, grandma was so money-savvy! My grandpa used to just give his weekly wage check to my grandma and she managed all the family's finances and gave him an allowance."
I live in a part of Australia with the highest number of anti-vaxxers (for all vaccines, not just Covid), so I’m just going to stick with my terminology.
This includes people who refused to give their child the tetanus vaccine even after she had gone to hospital with tetanus and nearly died. So you’ll have to forgive me for my scorn. And I know people who have been harmed by a Covid vaccine- I am not blindly following the masses.
Also, the flu vaccine changes every year and I was reading about new research to create a long lasting flu/Covid vaccine that won’t require boosters.
My grandmother once told me that it was completely normal in her time (and we are in central Europe). Men who worked in factories etc. got their wages in cash in a sealed envelope once a week (often in the morning). And all the wives lined up at the factory gates during the lunchbreak to collect the -still sealed- envelopes with the money from their husbands to do the weekly shopping. It was considered really tacky and inappropriate if the man had already opened the envelope and taken money out by then. The wives opened them and then gave their husbands some money if they had an errand to run or something they needed to pay for after work.
In fact, the "bad husband" trope at that time was a man who used his wages to go out drinking after work and then only gave his wife an empty or almost empty envelope.
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Jun 07, 2023
In some Asian cultures it is normal for the wife to manage the money.
Well if he brings it up that he wants his woman to have all his finances so that she manages things or half of his salary is the only way to find the right match. I've spoken to a person who does that, After University he's going to marry his partner who he has been dating for a year and she will stay at home but will manage all his money, his money is actually hers while she will work part time and the money she earns is hers.
I think that's a great deal. If the woman needs to do all the things around the house then she should be on a salary of a nanny and housekeeper. Of course the scrotes and the 50/50 manlets will not agree but they aren't worth your time anyway.
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I would just casually mention a couple doing it that way in a conversation and see how he reacts. Is he shocked? Does he think it's a good idea and how it should be? Does he say would never do that?
"Oh, grandma was so money-savvy! My grandpa used to just give his weekly wage check to my grandma and she managed all the family's finances and gave him an allowance."
My grandmother once told me that it was completely normal in her time (and we are in central Europe). Men who worked in factories etc. got their wages in cash in a sealed envelope once a week (often in the morning). And all the wives lined up at the factory gates during the lunchbreak to collect the -still sealed- envelopes with the money from their husbands to do the weekly shopping. It was considered really tacky and inappropriate if the man had already opened the envelope and taken money out by then. The wives opened them and then gave their husbands some money if they had an errand to run or something they needed to pay for after work.
In fact, the "bad husband" trope at that time was a man who used his wages to go out drinking after work and then only gave his wife an empty or almost empty envelope.
In some Asian cultures it is normal for the wife to manage the money.
Well if he brings it up that he wants his woman to have all his finances so that she manages things or half of his salary is the only way to find the right match. I've spoken to a person who does that, After University he's going to marry his partner who he has been dating for a year and she will stay at home but will manage all his money, his money is actually hers while she will work part time and the money she earns is hers.
I think that's a great deal. If the woman needs to do all the things around the house then she should be on a salary of a nanny and housekeeper. Of course the scrotes and the 50/50 manlets will not agree but they aren't worth your time anyway.