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I have been seing so many feminine self proclaimed coaches teaching during the commitment stage there will come a time when man will pull away coz he is scared and we as ladies should give him space so he can come back sorting his feelings out . I don't know after being on fds i would rather not have that man in my life that he feels the need to pull away iam too old to be playing this shit mind game along if you need to pull away while you dating me to think about commitment it means you don't think what an absolute queen iam and th we men needs to be blocked and deleted instead of us playing this pickmisha under the guise of of " feminine resting energy bs "
How do you guys react when he pulls away during dating stage would love to hear 💡
I remember an FDS post (not sure if it was here or on reddit) with the premise "The only green flag is consistency".
This applies here. If he is inconsistent in his behaviour, attention and attitude towards you, move on.
Oh, if he pulls away, I will give him space...Forever.
It happens when their Madonna whore complex kicks in. It's disrespecful. If he pulls away, he can GO AWAY.
Another brainwashing story to make us adapt to men, and bend over backwards. I agree - any hesitancy or pulling away is bad. I find some guys do this because they don’t want to lose their other options (which most of the time don’t exist).
I have a “what if” fantasy about ‘if only’ I broke up with my almost-fiance who came to a dance as my guest, casually excused himself before we reached the dance floor and hung out all night with his pals, then came and drove me home before the dance was over because they decided to go somewhere else. It was the first clear sign of disrespect but we’d been together almost a year and I trusted him and we were almost engaged so I didn’t read any ill-will into it, believing there had to be a good reason. The disrespect became obvious later as he started pushing me away and calling me “clingy”, and he’d done several things that should’ve made me break up with him. He had flipped like a switch and I had no idea what was going on. FDS would’ve saved me! The madonna/whore complex is foul, hateful, and he felt completely justified in treating me like trash until he broke up with me. The jerk actually had a fit when I started dating again!
Shera says if they start being interested in other women you cut their access to you off and tell them they can go to that other person for their sexual needs from now on.
It's not healthy, and is not a normal way to bond.
It's his way of solidifying himself within himself, even if it's before committing.
If he's not a high achiever, then all you'll have is a self absorbed dude without the benefits of an independent man.
I’d pull away too and date other men.
Men that do this are wasting your time and likely are bored with you and seeing other women. When those women don’t want him he comes back.
It’s best to drop these wastes of time.
That's interesting... I've never had a guy pull away while we were dating, they only become more committed. So I can't relate.