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I recently found this awesome YouTube channel where the creator shows and discusses a lot of stats on marriage and relationships and talks about relationship breakdown Reddit posts.
I saw this video and was amazed at just how insane a lot of men are. The OP talks about how her husband claimed that she was trying to baby-trap him despite the two of them discussing and agreeing to have a baby after 7 years of marriage. Her husband accused her of trying to baby-trap him after his friend told him about his girlfriend baby-trapping him. His friend's girlfriend clearly knew that her boyfriend wouldn't marry her so in order to get him to, she stopped taking contraception and became pregnant, knowing he would marry her because he comes from a conservative home that would expect him to marry a woman he impregnates.
Hearing this story set off alarm bells in OP's husband's mind and he accused her of trying to baby-trap him too. After they talked about it, they went to sleep only for OP to wake up and see that he had left the house. Please watch the video to see the ending and read the comments:
One vital trait to look out for when vetting is if a man has a mind of his own. Is easily swayed? Does he smoke because his friends do it? Would he go to a strip club because his friends would make fun of him for not going? OP's husband torpedoed his on marriage because he listened to his friend and was convinced that his wife was doing the same thing that his friend's girlfriend was doing. This is a form of misogyny because this clown feels that all women are the same so if one woman is trying to baby-trap a man then all women can behave the same way. It also shows that he has no love, respect or trust in his wife to believe that she's suddenly trying to baby-trap him. He didn't take into account who she is as an individual and what her character is like but instead, proceeded to put her into the same group as his friend's girlfriend.
Another thing to remember is that no man is that good a pretender. Any man that isn't truly a HV one will always tell on himself. There is no way this guy didn't behave in certain ways that showed that he wasn't worth his wife's time because how does he suddenly feel trapped that he's going to be a father? He must've shown signs of not wanting to commit to her prior to them getting married and probably when they got married too. It just goes to show that even when you're in a fully committed relationship like marriage, men can still feel trapped and fear commitment to their partner, to being a parent or to being an adult in general.
Please take note of all of these things ladies!
Someone please inform the scrotes that there is no such thing as an evil woman “baby trapping” him. Whenever a man chooses to ejaculate inside of her without a condom, he is choosing to potentially impregnate her. The end.
Beware of men who try to triangulate women with other women. "All the girls I find are X, you're the only one who isn't" is an attempt to make you work for his approval by proving to him you don't do those things other women do.
"Women are emotional" is also an attempt at triangulation. He expects you to conceal your emotions in order to prove to him you aren't emotional.
The thing about men who don't have minds of their own is that they actually are pretty good at hiding the fact that they're LV, because they get easily influenced by everyone, including you during the period of the relationship when they actually like you. It's what makes them seem HV. But once they start getting bored then they'll get influenced by their degenerate friends, by andrew tate, by reddit etc. and suddenly you have a monster on your hands.
The kind of men who base all their life decisions on what their friends do....are low value. "Pete bought a boat, so now I want a boat" YAWN, NEXT.
This guy is 100% cheating.
Shakespeare’s Othello has this theme too.
My ex was like this, it was terrible. He would listen to everything his friends said.