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I found this video to contain very insightful analyses and warnings around pickmes, and just how destructive they can truly be in your life. Its a very long video, I only watched about 1.5hrs, and that was very valuable. I recommend!
If you've ever wondered if pickme's are relatively harmless, or a red flag in and of themselves, this might provide you with some food for though to chew on...
https://www.youtube.com/live/xCqvMsEYl-c
(Won't let me embed, sorry). Of course many of us are working on untangling ourselves from some of this ourselves, so this is not about pickme bashing, but it IS about VETTING your circle and keeping YOUR best interests at heart at all times.
Many Pickmes will bring potentially dangerous, LV men into your life and your family's life, make excuses for them and take their side over yours. That's basically all you need to know.
It's all fun and games and "Poor her, she's just not ready but I can't abandon her" until her scrote boyfriend's buddy - whose creepy behaviour she always made excuses for - sexually harrasses you at a birthday party while she giggles or her pedo husband - whose obsession with preteen-looking girls she called a harmless "kink" - molests your child at a sleepover.
I watched that episode when it was live. I'm a paying member of Princella's, but yes I think I've narrowed down my rend group at this point in my life.
I just had to come back here and say this woman is absolutrly brilliant. Thanks for sharing!