Valentine’s Day hoovering! Here to remind you that it is just another day. “If he wanted to, he would”applies to all days of the year!

I’ve been hoovered on Valentine’s Day before. A man I had rejected in the past came back and offered a date. i would not be on fds now, if that had worked out in my favor at the time. But I did fall for it in the past and it did end in disappointment.

today I have two texts from men I have not talked to in years asking me what I’m doing and do I have plans.

valentines day is a day men like to tell us how they are lonely and need company.

IF HE REALLY CARED ABOUT YOU IT WOULD BE EVERY DAY.

yes in a relationship he should do something special of course but do not fall for the man who shows up then or decides to suddenly care then.

the holiday has gotten to him.

men get the luxury of only feeling lonely without a partner on certain holidays. A much larger portion of women have to be lonely all the time, even with a partner.

Ask a man if he feels lonely while with a partner and he will be confused at that question, while a lot of women will completely understand what you mean by that.

Sending out loving vibes to you all!! and encouragement to not answer any messages from any of these men who want to use this holiday to try and manipulate you.