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And watch his reaction and attitude from that point on.
It is not a foolproof vetting strategy - but I found often enough, it triggers LVMs to start showing cracks on their masks very early.
He either gets very defensive and start crying "Not All Men!!", gets mega offended and start throwing insults about women, or gets weirdly accommodating and trying very hard white-knighting himself to prove that he is special, unlike other men. Basically if his reactions is in any way, shape or form you find weird, cringer, or just plain "off" - he is an LVM for sure.
A potentially good man will show a different reaction that will impress you - you have to see it for yourself.
The point is not to start a debate - you merely stating a fact about yourself, and ends it there. Any disrespect he shows to that fact is the signal for you to get up and walk away.
Stay safe ladies.
I've thought about doing this, but I'm afraid it'll tell them how to win me over (eg. say/do things that shows he supports feminist causes while he may not actually feel that way).
Kinda off topic here. This was something I had to admit to myself a few years ago. I wouldn't wait for his reaction. He'll literally💥EXPLODE💥 with verbal/physical violence. Keep your mind and body safe, ladies. This is no longer a game.
That's one of my stock answers to 'why/how are you still single?' and it always sets the lv/nv/zv men OFF. Like it causes them literal psychological pain and they immediately either shut down or go off on a rant about how 'iT's ThE wOmEnZ wHo CaN't Be TrUsTeD' or 'NoT aLl MeN'.
nah in my community/culture whatever you want to call it, if I say that I just get accused of being lesbian/sexually confused. Nothing wrong with that, but the world see's nothing wrong with men, they only see the wrong in a woman rejecting a man's presence in her life.
From AFAR, ladies. Without your PUBLICALLY IDENTIFIABLE INFO, ladies. Do not put yourself in a situation where you cannot escape.
i’ve tried this. one didn’t answer.
another told me he didn’t want to be punished for the behaviors/actions of men in my past. BINGO!!! 🤡
How will a HVM react to that response then? So far all the dudes will become defensive.