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Last fall I had a match who told me he did Radical Honesty. I asked him if he would also be honest if that hurt anyone. Like if someone were happy about a new dress but you thought it was hideous. He said feelings didn't matter. Instant block. I had forgotten about it until I saw it pop up in a different place. Apparently very popular with scrotes, they use it to gloss over being assholes because at least they're " honest".
Apparently it's culty, too...
Let's be "honest" about their dick size, and their limp biscuit flaccid situation, and lack of clitoral knowledge, and the fact that endless pumping does NOT a femme orgasm make. LAWRD, if we were honest about their subpar sex skills, their humiliated testicles would crawl back inside themselves and their little pee-pee would retract and hide among their pubes!
"Feelings dont matter"
Thousands of years of biological evolution and development of civilization say otherwise. Without empathy and without caring about others' feelings, we'd be lawless monsters that went extinct ages ago.
I like to practice booting men who are inconsistent in my life off of a metaphorical steep cliff. But radically, though. And very honestly, of course. 🥰
That's just having no tact and emotional intelligence to talk about difficult subjects
That sounds like repackaged “I’m brutally honest” dudes. They go into conversation with the attitude of “I’m just being honest, if you don’t like it that sucks for you.” But it’s just an excuse to avoid learning any emotional intelligence. They’re being rude and sometimes outright mean, under the cover of “honesty” as a means of acting like you’re not allowed to get mad at them for it.
Keep in mind: when a narcissist or other abuser goes to therapy, they don’t learn how to be a better person. They learn how to use therapy-speak to further manipulate people under the guise of being “radically honest” and “speaking their truth.” I highly recommend that you avoid at all costs - they will attempt to gaslight you into questioning your intuition and your own eyes and ears.
This also reminds me of when a guy says at least he was "honest" about cheating! (WTF???!!!) Honest about being DIShonest? No, sir, that is NOT a virtue. Worse, still, are the women who say this about them. ("At least he was honest about it.") And, the reality is usually that he wasn't honest in the sense of being forthcoming. Rather, he finally had to admit it after he got caught. There's no honesty anywhere in that equation. AAAAANNNNNND, they only admit it after LOTS of denial and gaslighting and lying right in your face, and you keep pushing them, when they've been browbeaten so much, they finally HAVE TO admit it. HOnest to gawd, you could catch a man on video, and he would still deny it and gaslight you. (And, act indignant because you "invaded his privacy" . HAH
I fucking DESPISE this bullshit. Weak excuse for assholery, pure and simple. Women do this, too. "Well, it's true." "I'm just being honest." NOOOO, bitch/scrote, you're just giving your unwanted opinion and using selective "honesty" as an excuse to behave abominably. You sure as hell don't want me being "honest" with YOU about your looks, intelligence, job, family, dating life, etc.,,etc., etc.
https://www.juraglo.com/blog/when-radical-honesty-becomes-harmful-identifying-and-dealing-with-manipulation-tactics
Yikes