No more texting with men

I set this rule for myself. No more drawn out text conversations or using text as a primary mode of communication. It's too fraught on several levels. Texting is inherently low effort. It is the least efficient and effective way to vet a man. It promotes limerence (there is a natural void to fill with fantasy). If a man wants to talk to me he should call me or plan to meet up. Maybe this was in the handbook - I can't recall. I think it's a rule worth keeping for myself.