Never settle for someone you're not physically attracted to

A Whole Word! As woman raised an doomsday evangelistic conservative christian cult that does not believe in sex before marriage, but is perfectly ok letting men have sex with wives they abuse, and pawning younger women in their late teen or early twenties off on men way too old for them, this really is the truth!

I've done this too many times, especially as a teenager. Sleeping with men I wasn't attracted at all, even repulsed by out of fear or guilt or pity. It was horrible I was dry and it was painful, just like rape. It traumatised me further, it made desiring and enjoying sex difficult even with partners I was attracted to. It's damaged me sexually to this day and one of the many reasons for my very low almost non existent sx drI've. My low sex drive is due to rape, childhood sexual abuse, abuse and trauma, rejection also inflicted on me by men.

I ask myself do men sleep with women they are absolutely repulsed by? No many men will brutally reject women that dont live up to their pornsick. Fantasies. They will reject women for not shaving, for having a skin condition, for not having long hair, for not being petite, for not having big enough boobs, ass, sculped face the list goes on.

Men despite not being in the vulnerable position during sex and not being able to be raped by a woman, they feel entitled to only have sex with women they are very attracted to sexually.

Yet women are expected to "give men chances" "his personality" etc etc yet we are the ones that are harder to turn on, that needs foreplay, that can be raped, that our internal organs can be damaged during sex if we aren't lubricated or turned on, yet we are expected to sleep with men we are not attracted to. It is backwards. Sex for men with a woman is never painful or scary. Even if men slept with a woman they arent attracted to they would still orgasm, and not be in pain or traumatised. However we know with mens entitlement and self love for themselves, they could never.

Infact it's against nature. In nature women choose not men. Women are picky not men. As we are the ones that sacrifice the most to reproduce. Men are suppose to be grateful for any woman available. Whereas women are supposed to be very selective as it costs us more reproduction. Men are supposed to be beautiful and to attract us, since we are the choosers not them. Not the other way. Nowadays too many feminine men expect to be pursued or chased, they even reject women, in nature these males wouldn't pass on their genes. Men are not supposed to be picky. They should be grateful for anything they get and not take it for granted. Patriachy is against nature.

It's the same thing oral sex on men is more commonplace than oral sex on women yet we don't orgasm through piv only oral, yet a bj to a male isn't that satisfying and they always orgasm through piv. Yet it is expected for them to receive oral and majority of the time they will not reciprocate. They take and take and give nothing back.

We also see this about "starfishing". Men complain women starfish YET in nature the female is not doing the movement, the male is. The egg does not chase or put effort for the sperm. Men need sex more than women so they should put the effort to please us. Not the other way.

Women we represent life and creation and men represent death and destruction. If there's a God it's a woman and if there's a devil it's a man.

Then they complain about loneliness or they can't "get laid" yet they make sex as unsatisfying as possible, why would women want that? They create situations then complain about the consequences.

A happy life is a life far away from men.

I have so much to say

Nothing at all.

Nothing whatsoever! Men are SUPPOSED to be there for us to look at, but most are failing to live up to the standard set by so many other male animals. IMO men should be sexually and reproductively subordinate and anything else is inequitable

The ugly, uneducated losers are WORSE a lot of the time in my experience. They can sense that you're not as attracted to them as they are to you (and why the fuck would you be? You're the one doing them a favor anyway- they should be grateful, just like I'd be hyped to be with a guy who was better looking than me, the fuck) and they become hypervigilant and bitter. They spent their whole lives being jealous of women's attractiveness and when they finally feel like they "have" a woman they're up against their own inadequacy and can't handle it.

Keep in mind that the scrote who was a college dropout and cried on the date after I said I wanted monogamy was also balding, had yellow teeth, and was scrawny AF. Sure I was delusional for thinking he was going to value me more, but he was delusional for thinking he could find even better. Because that's how they think: if a woman ABOVE their league likes them, rather than being grateful, they think " the sky is the limit, what if next week I match Margot Robbie". It's disturbing how unaware they are.