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I saw a video recently of Mila Kunis talking about how quickly Ashton fell in love with her and how he fell for her as quickly as her dad fell for her mother. She said that by the 3rd-month mark, her dad told her mum that he loved her and she said that Ashton did the same thing with her. He always comes across as a loving, love-struck and dedicated husband to her which is a stark contrast to how he treated his ex-wife, Demi Moore.
I remember the internet buzzing when Ashton was outed for cheating on her, their separation and their subsequent divorce. A media outlet posted something major that Ashton said about Demi that I've never forgotten. When asked why he cheated on her, he said that while they were married, he had suggested that they have threesomes with women. She agreed to it (which am sure was done reluctantly) to make him happy and this is what made him feel that it was alright to cheat on her. He said that while cheating wasn't good, he didn't see the big deal everyone was making since she had agreed to threesomes. Now, of course, this is LV male logic at work but what he was essentially saying was that: since Demi allowed herself to be disrespected to her face, he didn't see the problem with disrespecting her behind her back. He felt that if she was dumb enough to allow him to disrespect her then that would translate to her being a low self-worth-having pickme, which made him feel that he didn't have to respect her in any capacity.
This is just a reminder that if a man you're with ever asks to open up your relationship or to have a threesome with women or men, know that he has no respect for himself, you or the relationship you both have. This applies to any man who wants you to sleep with other women or men and for him to watch. He's testing you to see what your standards and morals are. If you say, yes, you fail his test and he sees you as a woman that has no self-respect and is willing to bend her values in order to make him happy, which he will not respect, but if you say no and proceed to dump him, he'll be angry, shocked and proceed to gaslight you that "it's not a big deal", but deep down, he'll secretly respect you for having self-worth and self-respect.
Let's be clear; men aren't dumb. While they throw mantrums when women have standards and reject or dump them, they quietly respect these women for doing so because:
1) they know that they are spouting BS when they expect women to accept their abuse
2) they know that the correct thing to happen is for the woman to dump them
and
3) they know that they would dump you if you crossed their boundaries or showed yourself to be a woman without standards or morals.
I think the correct response to "shall we try a threesome?" is "oh my gosh, what a great idea! I have this huge crush on -XXXXX- from work, shall we invite him!? I'm so happy you're open to him and me."
Just to fuck with him. Then break up
You are completely correct, but it supremely PISSES ME OFF that they think they have the right to play these bullshit damned if you do, damned if you don't ethical boundary games in the first place. This is why I've been intentionally single for two years...if I get one more whiff of this kind of nonsense from a man who is supposedly romantically interested in me, I'm going to lose it 😡
Sing IT Queen. Lol, just left a dumbass for this reason. I would never allow myself to be disrespected in that way EVERrrrrrrr
Same here for holding the line HARD for no single dads. It’s the same issue for me. If I allow that, what else would I put up with? And it would be open season on all boundaries, all limits, all preferences.
After having 3 babies with Bruce Willis, Demi tried to get pregnant again in her 40s so that Ashton could have bio kids. Mila is really no better or worse than Demi, rather Mila is the fertile version of Demi. They’re both gorgeous actresses who look and talk so similarly. Demi will always have Bruce and their daughters, and Bruce’s new wife and kids. Ashton is a hick who could never be as legit cool as Bruce was back in the day.
Good spotting the nuances. I don't know them personally but if what he said is true than Demi represents the pickme mentality and Mila represents the FDS mentality. Mila had great parents who installed self worth in her which is extremely important. Not sure about Demi situation. Aston makes me go ewww...the fact that he would rather cheat than just divorce Demi in the first place. Like why do LVM do that? Save some drama and just break up first before proceeding to destroy everything.
This fucks me up so badly because it's true.