I don't mean men who go on 4 hour-long coffees during a week, then plan a second date with the one they like best. I mean men who string these 4 women along, kissing, having sex, future faking and then supposedly " choose" her. Because if they need that much time to see her worth, they'll lose it as soon as someone else comes along who is younger, skinnier, richer etc. A man should be wowed by you after a date or two. If he's not, he will never be. It's not a win to be "picked" from a carousel after you exchanged the bodily fluids of 3 others by proxy.
Not sure why people say it's the way to do it. If a man doesn't see how compatible we are after a date that lasts 6 hours, he's a moron.
Low value men just waste time. Low value men string out the partying, having sex, vices for as long as possible and then marry the youngest woman they can so that they have a nurse to take care of them in their older years.
Agreed. I’ve never understood how people can date multiples.
I don’t have the time or energy for that, but most of all, I always have a favorite which ends up being the only one I want.
Let's be real, we multi-date, that's FDS.
I think it' normal for men to date a few women and start to get to know them, but it shouldn't go on for an extended period, and he should not be sleeping with any of the women. Men should be able to assess compatiblity within a few dates--no extended string-along.