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I have been dating again and iam coming across alot of mid 30s late 30s men who get absolutely desperate moving the relationship too quickly for forward coz they want kids . It’s such a scary thing . I don’t mind if they express they want kids at some points but some of these men were fuckinv around way too long and now they see the horizen Mah leGecy and they will try to manipulate anyone who is willing to give them a chance to quickly take things forward . I have learnt to see this behaviour within 2 days and I block and delete . There is something realky wrong with men being absolutely desperate for kids and trying to lock you down so soon without putting efforts . They are also usually the misogynistic one twlling on themselves always behind women in their prime for their fertility ( eyes roll ) while totally oblivious they are not in theirs .
if they talk about kids on 1st days or 2 nd date in detail asking you how many do you want what kind of mother you will be BLOCK ( it’s creepy )
If they mention how woman their age all have kids or he can’t find woman his age to have kids ( block )
Talks about how women have having less kids now ( block)
Says women ask too much these days from men ( block ) all real examples
Oh gosh I have met these people! They will really tell you to your face on day 1 that they are looking for a breeding mare. I even had someone say - before the first date even - that I look good, I'm smart and fit and therefore would be a good wife and mother to him. Boxes checked, should I bend over ready for my insemination?
I guess these guys don't realize how desperate they sound. There is a big difference between talking to someone you are interested in about future plans in broad terms, so you know that you are on the same page and blurting to someone's face as you are just getting to know someone that by the way I really want kids, with anyone really and you might do.
Something tells me this interest in children doesn't run too deep though. Do they have enough money to support a family? Have they ever cared for a newborn? Do they plan to take parental leave? Do they know anything about raising a child, or even pregnancy and childbirth? Any one of those questions should reveal if they are genuinely looking for a family or if they are just panicking because the doctor said their sperm motility is tanking.
Men don't see kids as kids. Kids for them are status symbols, and that's why they get so pressed for it.
i've met one of those. he talked about children as his legacy.
these fuckers are obsessed with legacy. it is way too easy to get a woman pregnant. real legacy takes time and effort. they want to have kids without being real fathers, without doing the work.
These men that are hoovering and love bombing too fast have changed tactics. So it's now: trap the woman.
Meanwhile they've probably disrespected, lied, cheated, abused some other woman while wasting years of her life she can't get back. Now they want a chance, when they couldn't give one in the first. Too thick to have any ounce of foresight. They want a nurse and purse when they provided neither. I wouldn't touch a man over 32, sperm quality gives defective embryos and god knows we don't need anymore defective men. Men don't deserve us. I'm with Korean women, let the rubbish die out. I'm never going near a man again. My life is so much better now, stress free and fun.
I have a technique that is hard to fail in order to repel those kids-obsessed parasite:
I just remind them that my short height might "nerf" his kids genes and that he can go somewhere else or with a taller woman 😂