I am sick and tired of all the gaslighting generated by men 24/7 in order to get us under their service.
Everytime a guy is caught doing something really messed up and isn't forgiven for it (because they usually are), they resort to their "I am dumb" jocker card.
What is worse is that we as women, unvoluntarily, give men free pass for their behavior by calling them "stupid/dumb..."
NO! Men are NOT stupid, they are smart enough to get in high positioned jobs, I strongly doubt they aren't smart enough to make the distinction between acceptable and bad behavior.
Men are not stupid, they are evil, they are manipulative, and know exactly what they are doing
They only think that we women are dumb enough to accept and put up with their lies. And rely on our "you are dumb/are you dumb" to excuse a man's deliberated and calculated behavior.
Next time you want to insult a man, don't call him dumb, call him evil.
I agree 100%. Let's be honest about it. You don't make it to adulthood without having some idea of how to treat people with respect and how to conduct yourself in society i.e. how not to offend people. Any adult who pretends that they don't understand these simple concepts is lying. For example, I once had a boyfriend who was regularly over an hour late for our dates (usually with a BS excuse too). When I broke up with him, I cited that as one of my reasons. He claimed that he "didn't know" that showing up late was rude and begged me to give him another chance. Even back then, I knew that this was BS. After all, he had a job and he had attended school. If you are late to your job or school, you'd quickly be told that this is unacceptable behaviour. Like you say OP, men are not stupid. They only pretend that they are to get away with stuff like this.
Stop forgiving men, never do something they would never do for you.
Don't forgive them, don't help them, don't save them.
Men don't forgive and neither should you.
When women are attacked they are no longer defenders and providers and blame feminism for their cowardice not to step in. They weasel their way out of anything because society is too forgiving.
When women claim they don't like men then all of a sudden they are defenders and providers and you'll die without them.
When Women want careers a man is suddenly very valuable to have when they are the nr1 death cause.
Men do what you allow them to do unfortunately, you need to have nerves of steel, Say No. Leave after the first sign of disrespect.
Leave after he made a request for you to stop working or drop out of college, he wants either control or Barbara the builder, there is no third motive, he doesn't think you are a better parent otherwise men wouldn't blame mothers for everything.
He wants control and a subservient woman.
Love is not sacrifice, Love is absent of negativity and control.
Helping men is foolish you are signing up for him to grow in finances to spoil the gold digger, there is a huge change in generosity when they want to replace you, all of a sudden money is no longer an issue when he buys missy a Ferarri, while you get nothing.
That's what you will end up getting when you help men.
Puff Daddy beat up his former girlfriend and where is the outrage? Nowhere and the " Men" who responded to this pretty much acted like they were in a comedy skit instead of being upset.
Im proud of the boycotters of Bud Light for boo ing away a disgusting male stealing our awards but they would do that for a beer company but would never be this enraged when a woman gets beat up by a man because it's her fault somehow.
Alot of them are emotionally unavailable too and have never done any kind of mental reflection. Hvm usually meditate and are in the gym trying to improve themselves while lvm get defensive when feelings are brought up and instead of apologies they'll backpedal by calling their partner "too sensitive" or "it's just a joke". This is how lvm avoid accountability. If they can't hold space with a child or woman's emotions they're still a boy themselves.
I wish more women would understand this, but nope! Women give men free passes to everything in life.
"Next time you want to insult a man, don't call him dumb, call him evil."
I get the feeling they wouldn't mind being called evil.
I agree with all of this, especially holding men accountable for their actions, buttttt - they definitely are stupid.
they ARE evil. thank you!!! when it comes to how they treat women, they ARE evil.
i call them crazy because they usually are