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This is an untapped resource that I did not know about until recently. And only because I'd seen a few comments talking about it here and there. I live in a small ish town, I was not shocked to see many familiar faces. Be it the guy who checked my tires at the mechanic shop, guys my mom used to work with in health care, random faces I'd seen on tinder back when I used it. A dude who tried dating my friend (but shocker, he was fucking their 17 year old coworker so she didn't go nowhere near that)
I saw one face that I was involved with, back when I participated in hookup culture. I only slept with him once. Thank god. Protected. Was actually my first time hooking up with someone I met on tinder. I knew he was a fuck boi, but we were only gonna sleep with each other so it didn't bother me and I had no intention to see him again anyway. 4 years after that encounter, I see his face and 70 comments on this post. All saying he's a manipulator, lies about everything (lied about being in med school- which was funny cause when I knew him, he told me he just applied to med school) asks for exclusivity and then cheats on every girl he's involved with, does drugs, sells drugs, is a known pedophile, hitting up teenage girls and feeding them drinks, rapes them, gives girls STI's, the list goes on. Someone posted a screenshot of an article saying he was charged with some kind of sexual assault.
When I move, I will definitely be joining the new city's group as well, just to keep my eye out if I come across any of these scrotes. And I recommend everyone else do the same. Just be careful, of course there are many men apologists on there, a lot of pick me's. There's always gonna be a comment on every post "hey that's my cousin, he's actually a good guy!!" But then the comment under hers is "he raped me."
I seen one post saying "I feel so bad for the men posted in here! Their lives are being ruined, they're not able to defend themselves!" Like fuuuuuuuuck off. I'd rather be safe than sorry. If even one woman says she got a bad feeling or he was rude, or pushy with her or anything, everyone else knows to stay clear. This is women looking out for women. Im so glad these groups exist.
So ladies, if you haven't already, join your local groups, get a bowl of popcorn ready and have fun scrolling.
I love my local group! The mods there are metal, they ruthlessly boot the apologists and those friends and family members who defend their scrotes because they usually are the ones who rat on women and take screenshots back to those scrotes, jeopardizing reporting women's safety.
And I'm so happy to see how many women aren't putting up with male bullshit anymore and will throw the whole man away at the first sign of disrespect or shady behavior.
Funny how pickmes are worried about these facebook posts “ruining men’s lives”, but don’t care about the women whose nude photos they share with their mates.
i just heard a story--from the guy's own mouth--about how he invited an intern from his job at a prestigious biotech company to his house and gave her a topless massage (which included a kiss) without her consent. there was an age gap, probably of around 10 years.
she took it to the top and he received a month of paid leave while they investigated. unfortunately his claims held up (she told the lawyers that he got her drunk, while he had the six-pack still in his house containing the four remaining beers) and he returned to his job, scott free, after a nice paid vacay.
many lessons to be gleaned here.
often this is the only justice women have.
thank you for sharing this!
stay safe. in the words of @SayNad : STAY WOMAN.
The groups are a good resource but I hate that they have pickmes there that are against “kink shaming“ like sometimes a woman will point out a guy is a 🚩because he has a choking fetish, bdsm fetish or he has the tendency to pump and dump.
Then there will be a swarm of women coming to his rescue in the comments saying stuff like “Being strangled and used for sex is not everyone’s thing and thats perfectly okay, doesn’t mean he’s a bad guy. He’s just needs to find a woman that’s more compatible“ 🤡
I’m sorry what?!
I’m a fan of these groups because they cured my former-PickMe friend of her incessant benefit of the doubt giving to scrotes. She read enough accounts of fuckery to realize stuff I was warning her about is super common.
I’m in the metropolitan area for a really large city and honestly mine has gone downhill a bit. I still love the group but I occasionally see too many pro-casual sex and pro-moving in way too soon, careless opinions without considering how dangerous men are even after you’ve already known them for a bit.
Those 'Are we dating the same guy?' groups in my area are under CONSTANT attack and infiltration from men and pickme women, the mods there are absolutely ruthless and I love it. The one called 'Girl, RUN!🚩' gets at least one legal threat each month because of the stuff that is revealed there. They've had to get so strict with their rules to stay operational and it makes me sad that we can't even protect each other anymore.
What's sadder is the men have started a reciprocal group ..... it's wild how obvious and dumb it is. I've seen screenshots and the comments are always stuff like 'she ugly' 'she look like a bitch' 'she catfished me, she's actually 10 years older' as if that is even close to the full on murderish behavior that's revealed on the men.
In one group they've uncovered bartender was paid by other men to spike drinks! Multiple occurences! One occasion was a whole group of women getting affected at the same time. They only got away because they had a designated driver who drove all of them to safety.