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Cheers to all of the Queens here who are absolutely rocking the blocked and deleted life. Be proud of this accomplishment!!
Your consistency is paying dividends in clarity and peace.
We in FDS know they'll often attempt to weasel and "Hoover" their way back into our lives eventually when they get dumped.
It usually begins when we get bored and look at their social media, and/or the social media of the once-secret woman he was also involved with while acting single towards you. Then we get curious and are prone to reply back when he uses something wild like CashApp to message us! 🤡
Stay the course!
Nothing hurts their ego more than a good woman they once fumbled who ghosts and never responds to him again. 👑
They 100% haven't changed and just want to disturb our peace and not let us forget them.
Recently an ex from years ago I had blocked on every other platform found a way to message me commenting on a google drive document we used to plan a trip and I had forgotten to delete. Me knowing the narcissistic smug shit he is went to check if he said something about it on his insta because he basically documents every useless thought in his stories (his profile is open and he doesn't know I have a fake account). And there it was, right before he @ me at the doc saying "I hope you're well I couldn't reach you in so long so I got worried I'll always be here for you blah blah" he posted "should I send it or not? 🤔🤣🤣"
this is a nice thing to be reminded of from time to time.
It has never gone well for me to reply to someone I was once with or dating. I think it’s happened a few times where someone reaches out, inspires some hope that it could possibly work if given a second chance, then they disappear right after they got my attention. their validation that I would still answer them was all they wanted. Took me some time to figure that one out.
It would make me feel bad all over again. It would make me feel dumb.
I always play that whole thing through in my mind now and decide against answering.
Nothing screams THEY ALWAYS COME BACK quite like LinkedIn requests from blocked losers!
From a random scrote’s mouth proving it: “I was so afraid to get hurt in future relationships (BPD ex wife absolutely destroyed me), when I met someone who was completely into me, like major limerence vibes, I strung her along, but partly because she came on so strong. I was constantly having to fight to manage her intensity. Which led to a lot of pain for her and eventually, pain for me because over time, the dynamic flipped.
Suddenly I found myself in limerence with her when it had been so long and she'd been through so much pain from me that she was kind of cooled off from all of that. Now, she's broken up with me saying she just wants it to be done and all I can do is think about how if I could go back to the beginning feeling the way I feel now, I'd be right there with her, totally ready to go the whole 9 yards with her. It's absolutely excruciating 😣”
What an absolute clownish scrote! 🤡
I haven’t dated in a year now and haven’t been on OLD or went out with anyone and it feels so amazing and peaceful! I just want to focus on my career.
i’ve had 4 out of 5 scrotes reach out to me up to FOUR YEARS later. the best was a handwritten letter. the lamest was a Google Voice message.
it feels amazing to not respond and continue to block and delete. difficult at first with this last one, but so worth it in the long run!