... because they don't need them. Therefore, it makes no sense to look for them there and waste your time scrolling through tons of scrotes.
There. That could be my whole post but I'm going to elaborate a little:
Imagine a HV man. Attractive, accomplished, intelligent, financially secure, generous, kind... and whatever other qualities he needs to have for you.
I think everyone is going to agree with me that men like this are extremely rare to begin with in this society and one being single and looking for a serious partner (especially over a certain age) is even rarer. But still: it happens.
Now tell me if this is a likely scenario:
This man really, really struggles to find dates in real life because for some strange reason there isn't a single, lovely woman nearby - not even a coworker, a relative of a friend, a friend of a relative, a neighbor, someone he regularly sees while pursuing a hobby, someone he meets by chance at an event etc. etc. - he likes enough and who recognizes his HVness, so he has to stoop to looking at random women on dating apps because he is so desperate?
Let's be realistic here: a truly HV man will have absolutely no trouble finding dates in real life. He'll be drowing in eligible, amazing women because the absolute majority of men suck and finding a decent one who is single is like winning the lottery.
I am a HVW and all my colleagues are taken. So.. yeah.