Eh. I don't think we should care much about how males categorize us. Their opinions hold very little weight. What matters most is what we think of ourselves 💖
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exactly. you know your worth and that's the only thing that matters because that's the opinion with the biggest impact on you actions.
also, it would probably make you a b*tch in their category system hahahi'll take that over any of the other categoris in a blink.
The obvious answer here is that the only two categories worth being in, for women, are Baddies and Bitches. Everything else has women losing.
I’m not explicitly against doing -some- things for the male gaze. But it’s important to be strategic about these actions and ensure that doing them is getting you something worth your time and energy. Yes, that’s calculating - but not any more than what men are doing (and they are always calculating what they can get out of the women in their lives).
The only man worth being with is the one who is consistently going out of his way to impress you and do things for you. To keep you happy so that he can keep you in his life.
If he is not doing this, then he’s taking advantage of you.
I've lived this. I wasn't a "baddie" but I didn't understand what my looks meant to men.
It only got my preyed upon by ALL males, my whole life. Taken ones, old ones, married ones, ugly ones, loser ones, hot ones, blah blah. Excessive male attention is not a prize. It is nothing but scary.
I assume most scrotes see me as an option. Even those inferior to me. Usually they are post-divorce and delusional, thinking they can get the same type of woman as 20 years ago, forgetting he himself is ugly now. Happened with the last two men I dated. Totally unaware of how they look now, angrily swiping and not getting matches, then somehow they match YOU, you treat them nice, but you're not 20 anymore and that's the last time they dated, so they mistreat you bc they think a clone of their ex will pop up. Obviously they won't. I see the scrotes that used me pop up year after year bc they still think they will bag that twenty-something babe.
Men who consistently show me they want to treat me like gold.
Non beneficial scrotes from hell.
I didn't watch the video, but I know scrotes put us into two categories when they meet us:
Girls they would die for or do anything for. It truly is pretty immediate on their part.
Girls they don't care about but will certainly "play" with if we allow them to. They're not interested, but if we offer ourselves up as a play thing, they keep it going.
The baddie. Hot babe all scrotes want, but she has high standards. She's the Bitch in Argov's book.
The wifey. They milk her for resources and energy to build their " eMpIrE", then dump her oncr rich enough to snag a baddie
The shorty. You and I in our past relationships. Loyal doormat. They don't respect her because she chases them.
The bitch. FDS-women. We hate them, they know it and don't bother.
I'd say there's a fifth, a woman they deem ugly/unattractive, who has no value to them and who they treat like shit. They entertain shorties, they won't entertain her.
I'd say FDS women are 1. Only males worth a penny will bother with us because that's all we allow to bother us. LOL. I mean it depends on if we went the whole way in never wanting to deal with any man, ever again or if we choose to still date.
2 and 3 are basically the same. Women who play wifey/are doormats get their resources milked and get treated like junk/aren't respected.
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Eh. I don't think we should care much about how males categorize us. Their opinions hold very little weight. What matters most is what we think of ourselves 💖
The obvious answer here is that the only two categories worth being in, for women, are Baddies and Bitches. Everything else has women losing.
I’m not explicitly against doing -some- things for the male gaze. But it’s important to be strategic about these actions and ensure that doing them is getting you something worth your time and energy. Yes, that’s calculating - but not any more than what men are doing (and they are always calculating what they can get out of the women in their lives).
The only man worth being with is the one who is consistently going out of his way to impress you and do things for you. To keep you happy so that he can keep you in his life.
If he is not doing this, then he’s taking advantage of you.
Omg that’s YV edit, I love her! Her content is a NECESSITY, I really reccomend people check out their podcast: AudaciTea on Spotify. It’s really good.
I assume most scrotes see me as an option. Even those inferior to me. Usually they are post-divorce and delusional, thinking they can get the same type of woman as 20 years ago, forgetting he himself is ugly now. Happened with the last two men I dated. Totally unaware of how they look now, angrily swiping and not getting matches, then somehow they match YOU, you treat them nice, but you're not 20 anymore and that's the last time they dated, so they mistreat you bc they think a clone of their ex will pop up. Obviously they won't. I see the scrotes that used me pop up year after year bc they still think they will bag that twenty-something babe.
I’d rather be the bitch. I have no desire pandering to the male gaze.
Here are mine for "men":
Men who consistently show me they want to treat me like gold.
Non beneficial scrotes from hell.
I didn't watch the video, but I know scrotes put us into two categories when they meet us:
Girls they would die for or do anything for. It truly is pretty immediate on their part.
Girls they don't care about but will certainly "play" with if we allow them to. They're not interested, but if we offer ourselves up as a play thing, they keep it going.