Hinge Tips

Respectfully, yes we do. It's not recommended, and comes with several warning labels, but there are HVW who have used it successfully. I live with one of them.

HV behaviour isn't made of rules written in stone. There is no "do xyz and now you are HV!" Being HV is a state of mind and a way of engaging with the world; it's about growth, learning and accountability.

Radfems see the world for what it is and act accordingly, but that does not make all Radfems HV.

Fds recommends not using OLD , but it's not completely against it.

There's ways to use apps and not be a pick me.

this isn't a radfem exclusive site so how about yall go back in your corner

you've struck gold! 3 years on apps and nothing but dissapointment

Thanks! It's all luck. There's a lot of disappointment on apps

This is what I do. F bumble, where you have to do all the emotional Labour, and f tinder which is used for hookups and you have to swipe through 100s of ugly guys. At least with hinge, I can sort through who likes me, and that’s so fast and efficient, he’s in or he’s out.

This is actually a great article and strategy! It would make a valuable standalone post. When I was on OLD, I only entertained men who messaged me, and that went a long way, but blocking men quickly and often could be a very effective addition for ladies who are choosing to use OLD.

For what it’s worth, I met my HV boyfriend on Hinge after a year of celibate leveling up followed by 3 months of OLD.