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I'm heading out in the next half hour to meet a guy who I've enjoyed meeting twice. He's 32, my age, and this is a big deal for me as all my exes have been atleast 5+ years older. We work in the same industry so had plentyyyy to talk about. My industry is v.female dominated so it's rare to find a good looking man in that setting but I digress!
All good so far - all initiative made by him, he's paid/asked/organised meets etc. No kissing thus far which, again, is unusual. I hope I remember how that happens😆
Help me not get shitfaced and abandon all FDS principles this evening. Any pointers/mantras for me as I head out the door would be VERY welcome.
Yours in queen-ness x
Remember this is the date men think they'll get lucky on (so don't do it and see how he handles himself after). So go enjoy yourself (still avoid drinking) and see how he acts after this date, bc you should be having good times together and he shouldn't get flakey after this date (inviting you to his place for dinner after the 3rd date is him making a move for sex btw- I learned that one the hard way).
Enjoy it!
- don't go to a second location
- don't go to his place (see above)
- watch for woke fishing
- watch if he's happy to pay or begrudging
Let us know how it went
You’re all full of wisdom. He was great company, no begrudging payment, no moves to go to his. Laughed all night and still think he’s lovely. But also no smooch! Slow burner this but could be onto an actual HVM x
Have 3 simple goals in mind:
-Don't pay
-Don't overshare or trauma dump
-Neutral location (no house visits)
Just remember, look in the mirror and say three times “I’m da shit, I’m da shit I’m da shit god damn it”. Voila! good luck and HAVE FUN.