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Because I broke up with him.
So I called his mom, and told her. And I certainly did not respond to him.
Ladies never fall for this. Whether the threat holds water or not, call his friend or relative, call the police or emergency line, send help his way if you feel compelled, but do NOT reward him with your attention for this behavior.
NEVER waste your good-nature and empathy on a horrifically cruel manipulation tactic.
If you want to really call them out, call emergency services and tell them you recently broke up and now the guy is writing messages threatening to kill himself and that you are really, really worried he might go through with it. You just broke up, but you don't want him to die and would feel so guilty if he actually did it and it was your fault😎. Let him see how fun it is when worried EMTs or police officers start banging on his door every time he tries that shit.
Great advice.
But it's also hilarious that you told his mom. Because he's bluffing and he's gonna be so embarrassed when his mom comfronts him. I hope mom tries to make him go to the hospital or something and he has to admit to her that he was only trying to manipulate you. Then his mom should smack him and disinherit him.
Any woman in this situation, call the police so they can baker act him and lock him in the looney bin for a few days. Bet he wont try that again.
Narc person said that he would have killed himself if I didn't give him another chance. Well he had no empathy, If he felt he did nothing wrong he will not be regretful until his pals are telling him that he crossed the line, that should have been a red flag for me.
But I was in a year where I felt like I need to hurry and find someone before it's too late.
But I've learned a lot from my brief encounter with men,, and from other women.
I have become very intolerant towards men particularly.
Respect me or fuck off.
ive learned the hard way when they dont get their way with you they turn to another women to trauma dump on her. Had one dump on me about how he wanted to kill himself over his ex like ok he wasn't over her? why is he talking to me? im so glad i dont spend my day worrying about what men will trauma dump on me or talk about his ex he fucked up the relationship with.
That's such a heartless threat to make and when people do that it says alot about themselves tbh. I usually respond with "no don't do that you're awesome" and they get quiet because they suddenly are in a position of pity instead of control