I feel like this mindset has definitely helped me with the fear of getting into a bad relationship or situation - knowing that 1) I have options, and 2) I can always walk away. Yes, I know this is very basic FDS, but wanted to post as a reminder/pick-me-up in case anyone needed.
P.S. I have also decided to start my own blog! It’s stil just in development and right now is just my previous forum posts, but if you’re interested feel free to check it out here: https://femcurrent2.wordpress.com
I make males aware, when I reflect back and I’m happier before you came then I’ll ghost you.