They always start random arguments when they are either cheating or they are not in the mood to be in a serious relationship with you and they want you to break it off so that they don't have to worry about their nice guy act.
When a dude says I'm a nice guy it's time to run because when I called a hot and cold bastard who didn't have the balls to end things all kinds of names under the sun for screwing me over he's acting like a pitiful abuse victim saying he's a nice guy.
Playing the victim is one of the key traits of the "nice guy". He's so nice, he has to put in effort to be "nice" (so it's a facade - not genuine), so he must never be responsible for anything hurtful, therefore he is the victim. In his head. Male logic.
They always start random arguments when they are either cheating or they are not in the mood to be in a serious relationship with you and they want you to break it off so that they don't have to worry about their nice guy act.
All facts! Wish I had this plain wisdom at a much younger age.
I have a friend who had been in a relationship for 5 years and never met his parents. Not even a single time. Guess what? Last month he left her.
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