Honestly, there a SO MANY posts out there from women who are constantly tired, exhausted, angry, frustrated and feel miserable - you don't even have to search far. For example: r/breakingmum on preddit. Holy $hit. The amount of women complaining about their man-babys who can't even (or won't) do the easiest househould tasks on their own is baffling. I mean it's like an epidemic all over the world. And it's not just about these women having a disappointing marriage. It's about a lot of women having depressions, suicidal thoughts and hate their life. And the reason is ALWAYS the same: lazy, entitled, usles, corn-addicted vidja gaming stoned manbaby scrote husband who actes like a fucking toddler. Look at the comments there. Are we supposed to deal with ALL that $hit for years and years - for what? A lousy cheap etsy ring and some bad unsatisfying $ex twice a month?
Na, sis. I'm out. Thanks but nope.
That sub is so sad. I never comment but I read it all the time. RegretfulParents is another one. These women on these sites are the proof of what happens if you lower your standards. It's proof of what happens if you listen to society and center your life around a male. This is what happens when you fall prey to societal pressures to marry and have kids when marriage is slavery for women. Marriage mainly benefits men. Patriarchy paints marriage as the pinnacle of a woman's accomplishments, but this was Patriarchy's checkmate on the woman, to brainwash her, force her to marry a male, ANY male, in order for her to support HIM. Not the other way around. Women have to be literally trapped, and forced to go against her nature to marry a male.
Oh, man- I feel this so much. My house was legit INFESTED when my ex lived here, because he "didn't believe in using chemicals for pest control" (read: didn't want to spend money on it). It was also DANGEROUS because he was constantly taking on new projects without completing the ones he started, so there would be power tools laying around and nails and screws on the floor. Honestly, I don't think my kids would have survived if I wasn't a SAHM following him around, cleaning up after him.
If that woman happens to be reading this: NO, it's not petty to divorce im over being a slob. And it's most definitely in your children's best interest.
The women in happy healthy relationships are busy living and enjoying and co-creating their lives. They're not going to be on the internet (as much).