This is what I learnt when men/women call another women this nasty term. This term isn’t a really stigma with men. In fact, other men will probably congratulate men for being taken care of by a woman. Whenever I hear people calling other women “gold diggers”, I instantly respond with a simple, “so?” And you can watch them rage. 90% of the time:
When men call women gold diggers, it’s because they’re angry that they can’t have this type of women because they can’t provide for them.
When women call other women “gold diggers”, not only is it hurtful, but it’s because they can’t match their energy, or find a guy that is willing to share their resources.
Instead of calling women “gold diggers”, we should be congratulating these women who are able to find someone willing to provide, and study their ways.
Everytime I see a woman being taken care of in my head iam like “ yass queen ” !