This is what I learnt when men/women call another women this nasty term. This term isn’t a really stigma with men. In fact, other men will probably congratulate men for being taken care of by a woman. Whenever I hear people calling other women “gold diggers”, I instantly respond with a simple, “so?” And you can watch them rage. 90% of the time:
When men call women gold diggers, it’s because they’re angry that they can’t have this type of women because they can’t provide for them.
When women call other women “gold diggers”, not only is it hurtful, but it’s because they can’t match their energy, or find a guy that is willing to share their resources.
Instead of calling women “gold diggers”, we should be congratulating these women who are able to find someone willing to provide, and study their ways.
Men are sex diggers that cause tremendously harm to society yet no one says a thing about it.
On the one hand, the men complain that we're "shallow" and only want "looks." (There's nothing wrong with a woman who wants a handsome man, anyone who tells you otherwise is full of crap)
On the other hand, if women are looking for the ability to provide, they're called gold diggers. Exactly what do these men want women to be looking for? They don't want women to be after their looks or ability to provide - what do they want the women to look for? Their farts?
Man: You’re a gold digger.
Translation: I’m a broke/stingy piece of shit.
I 100% agree.
Men will complain no matter what. They feel entitled to an attractive woman, but do nothing to earn her affection.
Surprise surprise, when a man actually DOES something for her (ie take care of her needs), she’s a gold digger. And he’s a simp.
Men will do and say anything to lower the bar. And Pickmes are there to help them.
Yes! Keep the standards high and these busta ass men low.
Males and some women get upset whenever a woman or girl has any resources. Women are considered a resource themselves so they should not be consuming resources. It's considered a waste because those resources could go to a real human, aka, a male.
Everytime I see a woman being taken care of in my head iam like “ yass queen ” !