What do y'all think of this? There are more details in the comments
Some of the details:
- He knows how busy she is, when she works, and her texting frequency. This has been established
- They aren't in a relationship
- She has CoMmUnIcAteD
https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/missing-his-phone-calls.5022451/
I've had men jokingly and seriously demand I change my work schedule around to meet them. Imagine flipping your life around to meet a guy and he turns out to be a dick. Lol. Whats with men asking for way too much way too soon? Pre-fds, one time a guy asked me to wear anime cosplay for him... Upon first meeting... I don't cosplay or watch anime. So I just ignored him forever lol. This mf wanted me to spend a thousand dollars to larp as a cartoon child for him wtf.
I think @EyesWideOpen hit the nail on the head with her response to this thread (emphasis mine):
OMG I.... I.................................................
I think I need more coffee. It's still too early in the day for this level of male audacity.
p.s. I love "So I just ignored him forever." :-D
My short story (pre-FDS) isn't as intense as the OP in that thread but I'll share anyways. I had a male acquaintance who got pissy when I prioritized my education over meeting up with him for food. He called himself punishing me when I wanted to reschedule after my class by saying he already ate & was no longer hungry. If he was expecting me to chase after then he never got it. It may not of been 'too much' but I could already see the signs of control & emotional abuse. I eventually cut him off for other reasons but that should of been the first & only offense.
What gets me is esp online in chat, strictly for passing time while I’m doing other things online and always kept in the background, men ask for my phone and/or email. As strangers! It strikes me as mate-guarding: get her away from all these other males and be some weird online version of “exclusive” for no good reason. Just nope!
Anyone who asks for a favor too soon is a 🚩. This includes men who have asked me on dates and then told me I need to bring a bottle of wine or dessert for a picnic. Always 50/50 cheap men do this. A man that wants to have sex with you is NOT the same as a girlfriend asking you to bring something for a potluck.
Update: She blocked him thank God. This thread is interesting because of the pickme clown show. One man literally said that the guy is "being nice" by being passive aggressive instead of just aggressive. (Apparently not being abusive isn't even an option in this scrotes mind. Yikes.) Lesson here? Passive aggression is *still aggression*.
"He could scream at her and hit her and he didn't" booboo they are STRANGERS she could shoot him and she didn't sooo...? Tf. Lol.
Also one of the pickmes is defending herself by saying that "Y'all are using this one guy to judge all men. I'm not jaded about men blahblahblah" whilst agreeing with incels.
The comments are about abuse, not just men.... Tell me you've never met a decent man without telling me that you've never met a decent man lol.
TLDR; woman CoMmuNiCaTEs very clearly her job schedule. Scrote simply just doesn't like the fact that she has a good job and boundaries. Hissy fit ensues. Sad STANK women defend a random bum because they, personally, take what they can get when it comes to dick, including abusers.
I relate to OP. I make good money and men do not fuckin like it. I have experienced her exact situation almost every other time I start talking to a guy. It doesn't matter how well you communicate, how sweet you are, if his ego is fragile he will show you, quickly. In OP's case, its really not about her schedule or her missing his calls while at work, its about her income. Period.