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Whenever you display anger, disappointment you are told that you are a child for not getting over it after a while but when you are a good little doormat who tolerate men’s crap, you are forgiving and don’t yell or talk back you are seen as a mature women then you are being emotionally abused.
Men claim that women want accountability of children but Men want accountability of dogs, because even a child gets put in place when they misbehave. You can’t blame a dog for what it does wrong and you see that displayed in society a lot. “You should have chosen better” what did you do to deserve that?” “You probably didn’t reject him nicely”
Don‘t try to understand men, the only thing you need to understand that he knows what he’s doing and did it because he wanted to do it. A man’s side of the story is always believed while a woman’s side of the story needs camera footage or receipts in order to combat the lies he’s spreading about you.
Don’t give him ammo by staying after the first offence. What can he tell his buddies when you leave right away without a word?
“I disrespected her and now she won’t speak to me” Is all he can say.
When you stay, and nag, complain and cry, write paragraphs of text to make him see how bad he hurts you or raise your voice because you are tired of his crap then all you are doing is loading his gun to fire it and make you look like the villain.
Its like letting him shoot you and then throw the gun at you telling everyone that you are the one who did that and everyone will believe him always.
You‘re denying him that chance by ghosting.
He didn’t make a mistake by letting you down, his only mistake was assuming that he knows who they can do it to.
Channel your anger into action. If talking doesn‘t help them walking away will. He might never change but you will reclaim your peace.
Make a rule and promise yourself that you only give men one heads up, if he doesn’t heed it then it’s time to go. He’s basically telling you to go F yourself when he doesn’t stop And you deserve better.
When you tell him not to call you names and he doesn’t correct his behaviour and calls you another name or brush it off saying it’s just a joke then you know what to do.
A man that values you back off at the slightest discomfort you display, a man who doesn’t thinks you’re just being a fuss.
yes, Queen.
My sister and I are like day and night in terms of character but wz think alike. My parents are divorced and for the past 7 years she's been living with my mother and I've been living with my father. My sister ressembles my fathers mother alot so he likes my sister alot because her characters also ressembles his mother. When my father is unhappy with me for illogical reasons, I'll always argue with him or answer back, as for my sister she's the shy type and don't want conflicts so she just agrees. My father always says how she's such a good girl (barf) because she's submissive in his head which is not even the case because she thinks like me and critics my father when he can't hear. And to me he says that I might be the daughter of satan and I just wanna tell him that well if that's the case then he's satan but I care about my life.