ReddXit: Why FDS is Abandoning Reddit (and You Should Too)

So, I finally did it. I left Reddit. I was hungry and tired, so I asked for assistance, not my proudest moment, but I was inspired by people’s kindness. Then, I trusted someone and got caught up by a scam and because of my naïveté - I was accused of being the scammer. I couldn’t take it, so I deleted my account. I can’t imagine how worst it would have gotten if I stayed.

I used to follow r/watchredditdie but after being permabanned for a dumb reason (turns out this is happening to a lot of people as per youtube videos on the matter), r*ddit is officially dead to me.

Just nasty mods over there. With an attitude like that, their own mind is hell on earth for them. We don't need to worry about them getting their comeuppance.

I'm so fascinated by the timing of this. I literally just joined reddit a number of weeks before stumbling across FDS on there. Which was just days before FDS left reddit. I'm so thankful of the timing of events b/c who knows if/how I would have found you otherwise! Where has FDS been all my life.., ya know? Ironically it was another sub subtly badmouthing FDS that led to my discovery of it. So i guess not all publicity is bad? haha But in all seriousness, Kudos for creating this space and what a godsend.

Thank you all for enduring what you did for so long. I’m more than happy to switch over to a new platform, congrats on leaving your toxic relationship with Reddit.

I'm happy without Reddit. I just listened to the podcast regarding Reddxit and while the ending was fucking hilarious, I truly get it. That site is a cesspool.

I hang out there a lot and I miss this group so much!!! Your posts ladies are what keeps me going about improving myself and not feeling low for being single.

The only reason I was on Reddit was to read FDS. It's super boring without it so I have no problem quitting it.

Early Reddit used to have a well-deserved reputation among normal people for being a weird cesspit full of MRAs, incels, and racist libertarians. Once tr*ns politics began to dominate the site the user base shifted somewhat to the left and it gained some credibility by censoring a few (but not nearly enough) of the most egregious hate subs. Unfortunately, a lot of tr*nswomen on Reddit were hatched out of that same crop of awful sexist men who used to run the show so nothing fundamentally changed–just their misogyny is "woke" now. It's always been a hostile place for women who don't kowtow to shitty men, even with the lip service given to progressive values in recent years. Their universally histrionic reaction to places like GenderCritical or FDS only proves that scrotes on Reddit are mostly a bunch of woman-hating loser manchildren and always have been, regardless of politics or pronouns. Lately a lot of the old school MRA mindset has been revived in defense of that bloated old hasbeen Johnny Depp's latest attempt to publicly destroy the woman he abused. I can't even avoid it in completely unrelated, non-political subs. I truly loathe Reddit and the worthless men who use it, quite frankly. (Sorry for the odd censoring, my comment was getting flagged as spam for some reason and I was curious if it was due to certain words being filtered).

I was so bummed to see FDS gone right during the Amber heard trial. Would really like to hear that take. I joined this a long time ago, I’m not seeing any threads on that trial. Totally understand why you would leave just watching the trial even after the abuse being discussed and never denied only rebutted the support is by and large for Depp, including from women and even battered women. It’s sickening

Been on Reddit for a REALLLY long time. Gosh. Probably 12 years or so. I had gotten down to just FDS and occasionally curly hair or skincare addiction but without FDS I think it's probably time to finally cut the chord. It's a terrible place. Hope to see this space build out!

I can understand the decision to move from Reddit to here. However, I miss the content we had in FLUS and FDS. Is there anyway we can migrate the important posts from Reddit to here? Maybe some people can get access to subReddit and copy the posts here in a separate migrates posts group if we don’t have other solution….. PS. I had saved some posts from FLUS and I think it’s a shame to lose the really good content regarding setting goals, and working towards fulfilling them.

It's been a while since I've noticed that all dating subs are flooded with absolute incels, any advice sites are circle jerks that blame women for literally anything. Like, they WANT to have sex with women but they HATE women and blame women for not wanting to be abused by shitty men? So they make up fantasies about women being complicated creatures that only look for 5% of ultrarich men just so they don't have to accept the reality! Make it make sense!

I felt so bad for many, many poor PicMe's posting on dating subs just to be insulted or harassed in comments.

Engaging with them led to them either refusing to listen or threats in my inbox. It's the threats that were ignored by Reddit that made me realize that Reddit is not safe. Not only my reports were ignored, but my comments calling these men out were removed for spam reasons. I left right before FDS left.

I was a loooooong time lurker of the Reddit. So sad you ladies left, but I’m happy you all packed your ish and left!

As someone who never used Reddit, and only found FDS a couple weeks ago, it sounds like a truly vile crazy-making place.

Super embarrassing but I didn't notice until today even though scrolling through a few posts on reddit is a daily habit for me. What I did notice was that I could no longer find myself relating to any of the content I was seeing on there. Instead of passing the time for five minutes between meetings, I've left feeling disconnected and frustrated.

I didn't realise how much of an antidote FDS was to the rest of Reddit. I don't expect this website to hit the same kind of scale, but I hope to find some camaraderie here.

I use reddit only for dieting tips and calorie counting, but i loved seeing fds content mixed in between. I will follow here now

Agreed, terrible website. happy to move here

No, I agree that content was original and priceless I wish we had a warning so we could have cleanly migrated over rather than this haphazard fashion

This is a fantastic decision!

Mods you deserve to not deal with this crap that reddit gave you. This was a good thing for all your mental health. As much as I loved the sub, it wasn't worth the headaches.

So, I made a tweet about how funny it was that this whole thing showed how men and women will handle negative feelings towards each other, that men invade women's spaces as much as possible to attack and women just move on The incels of twitter loved proving me right 😂 they are FURIOUS FDS is gone.

For me dealbrakers where two things: constant bans/authobans cause i was watching diff subs and everytime i was looking for anime where a porn version of this anime tred with almost same numbers of subscribers or even more

I'm glad we're here and I can honestly leave reddit. That place has so much ridiculousness.

One hilarious note. PPD on reddit has a thread bashing FDS. I was like bros they are gone and you are still talking about them.

I literally was so nervous when FDS vanished.

I deleted my account while listening to the episode. Good riddance, I hope that the website takes off

Im glad it’s moved

I felt bad even listening. I can’t listen how awful this things are

Why are woman subs thrown off there. When men subs get to stay on? And why there are so many feminist hate channels on YouTube

This group has taught me a loooooot. I will pray for you ladies. I was almost getting emotional cause I thought that FDS was permanently removed. But forgot that we had a community over here❤️

I’m seeing men comment here and it’s ridiculous. Can’t even imagine what the mods felt like sifting through the piles of pure filth on Reddit. Report their comments when you see them ladies!!!

Leaving scrottit was such a healthy move for me. I am aware that wherever we go there will be entitled and misogynistic men. For all I care, they can die mad.

Sister subs to FDS are under threat too. Low value men will stop at nothing and desecrate and abuse any female-only space and try to make it theirs.

I realize that contributing to a pro-LVM pro-porn, pro-prostitution platform like scrottit is a waste of time. I'm glad this site has been advertised for the past year and a half.

Males here will just oust themselves out. This is not their place. Maybe the mods should do a periodic member verification. I would agree to that.

honestly now thats it all done i'm glad FDS left - I curated my reddit feed to be like 90% positive and chill content, but even then dumb "victory" posts and reposts were coming up all over the place! i've been insulated from most of reddit's nonsense due to a very curated sub list (or so I thought) but being exposed to it today just affirmed that moving was the right decision. excited to see a smaller but more dedicated community through the site and help grow this movement through other mediums.

Sounds pretty hostile to me

Happy to see the website being used more! We can easily cultivate our community away from Reddit As you make the transition ladies please remember to keep your safety your number one priority still! Try not to post any details that can be tracked back to you, make your profile picture something you've never used on social media and be careful about the details you leave in your bio I look forward to seeing everyone's thoughts and strategies as we hit the ground running

I’m honestly relieved that FDS is off Reddit. I feel like FDS is too big of a movement to be confined to Reddit. This is the new wave of feminism, going back to the roots!

“if I was a man I would drag my balls through the hot sands of the Sahara and double dip it and teabag Reddit“ omg lol

Just listened to the podcast. Oh my god I had no idea what the mods went through on Reddit 😱 the fucking depravity of scrotes users and scrote mods.

One quote that really stuck with me about the hypocritical reddit admins keeping all the violent gorey porn subs but removing actuallesbians or anything deemed tRanSPhOBic “They don’t think anything is abusive or violent or racist if you can masturbate to it” Reddit is a cesspool that caters to pedo pee pees.

While I'm saddened that it escalated to this,I'm happy that FDS lives on in here.

I hope all the scrotes manage to stay away. I wouldn't know what to do without you all and I look forward to conversing with you ladies on here. :)

Thank you so much for the great work throughout all those years girls ! It opened my eyes to a lot of things ! I’ll definitely be following you here and also following the podcast !

I stopped posting on the FDS subreddit after I realized that anytime I posted anything, it was extremely likely to end up screenshotted or mocked in some way by someone on that terrible website. I could comment on a recipe subreddit and someone would go "LoL FdS pOsTeR". So I just lurked for a while. I think that this is probably a good call.

I’m sad to see it go from Reddit. It was the only site liberated from pickme’s and pro male women. Even on the WGTOW sub there are pickme women and loser pro male women who got my account suspended for a month because they gang up on my comments about wanting a woman only country,

Wouldn't that be something? A place for women; Just for women. Feels like a fairy tale

Hello Mods, just wanted to thank you for all your thankless work on Reddit and I can only imagine how awful it must have been for you at times. I think that the move here is a great idea and should allow us all to focus on the main aim for the site which is empowering women (ladies?) to have safer, happier lives.

It’s such a relief that FDS finally left Reddit! For the past year or so I’ve been following the community and tried to add relevant comments of my own a few times per month, but only ~10% of the time had them approved. I understood that moderators were overwhelmed by volume, but repeatedly investing time into posts only to find out I was talking to the ether made me feel like the community had no space for me. Realistically, with an early career in medicine it would have been impossible for me to dedicate any more time to posts that might have allowed me to achieve the elusive “Newbie” moniker. I also believe that a central part of FDS’ mission is to create a welcoming space for newcomers to actively engage with content and to feel connected with established users, and I believe this will be achieved much more effectively off Reddit. I very much look forward to engaging with the community here!

This is a massive disappointment. You guys didn't even bother to give advance notice. I still am going to use reddit because there are other subs I like to interact with. You killed off a subreddit with 250k subscribers. The average post on here gets 1-2k views. Even before this the mods were making bad decisions. After the recent rule on what posts are allowed there would only be 2 or 3 posts everyday when I would check for top posts past 24 hours when before I could spend 30 minutes or more on the subreddit every day. I am not going out of my way to use this website when the subreddit vanishing is a voluntary decision by the moderators. Hopefully it was just privated and can be revived in the future. You just threw away a vast majority of the reach and audience FDS has. What a waste.

Read about FDS (left so many subs there that purported to be for women, but allowed men in), saw it had moved, now I'm here and I don't need Reddit anymore. It's sad, there are some good subs, but the redditbeards will use any opportunity to stick their knob where it's not wanted.

Since it's only private and not deleted, would it be possible to recover old posts? I made a few long posts that were pretty well received and might be of value here but now I can't even see them on my own profile to move them over.

This is what I needed right now, I need to get off of Reddit. Too much hate, too much anger, too much misogyny, too much shit I just would be better off not interacting with.

I would love access to the reading material and handbook. How do we get it now that reddit is gone?