SEEKING HOPE: are there are girls out there who have boyfriends whose dicks work? Work great even?

I’ve been with porn sick limp dick and I was absolutely miserable. Then I met someone who never watched porn and was really attracted to me + not selfish in bed. He never had a problem getting hard for me. He would get turned on just from looking at my face. So yes, there are men whose dicks work and would give you a far better time.

Ooooh. My ex bfs weren’t into porn and their dicks got SO hard. All I’d have to do to get em hard would be to either flash em my boobies or kiss them. Just kissing them would sometimes even get em pulsing and dripping, too, cuz their bodies responded normally to stimuli. Also, the knowledge that I was gonna go rub one out of they said they weren’t in the mood ALSO got them very in the mood lol.

I am very much a pillow princess and expect a man to make me orgasm at least once before his penis is allowed inside of me. Meaning either fingering, grinding, eating me out, whatever would get me off he had to do so before he’d stick it in and it would make sex SO wild and crazy. It was so hot. God, just remembering my exes coming up after eating me out with my juices all over their beards and their dicks bouncing around excitedly while dripping precum… damn. I’m ovulating, too. Anyway, the sex was delicious. Absolutely delicious. I enjoyed every second and always looked forward to the next time we’d make love again. HVM were always warm, gentle, caring, loving, and kind. They’d tell me they loved me, kiss me, nuzzle me, hug me, and after we’d hold each other, kissing and joking and staring lovingly into one another’s eyes. Sex with HVM is just 15/10. And in the morning, they’d either bring me breakfast in bed or we’d sleep in and go out for brunch.

Comparatively, sex with a LVM when I was in my pick me phase was always the worst. Soft dicks, no fore play, my naked body was never enough, kissing didn’t do it, either. They were rough, wanted to bite or pull hair or spank me or do something else violent and degrading, like put it in my ass. These creeps would demand blow jobs. -100/10 experiences. I even had one guy turn on porn while we had sex cuz he wasn’t staying hard and it was ALL petite asian women. I am a busty, muscular white woman. 🤢👎🏻 The pick mes can have these sickos cuz I’m NEVER getting with a man with a broken penis EVER again. Waste of my time.

Yes, HVMs who are good in bed exist.

Avoid pornsick scrotes like the plague.

Other ladies have already covered so many good aspects, but I will try to add more.

Being with a HVM who adores me makes me feel like the ultimate feminine goddess. All I need to do is kiss him tenderly, hug him tightly, or caress him, and he feels my sexual intent and immediately gets rock hard for me. He lasts as long as I’m enjoying myself and gets lost in my pleasure. He finishes when I’m fully satisfied and I sensually ask him to finish for me.

With LVM, as soon as they came, they were suddenly disinterested in me. With my HVM, he feels even more loving and connected after he comes, telling me he loves me and how beautiful I am. He holds me close. And as soon as I start feeling eager again, all it takes is another deep kiss or pressing myself against him for him to get hard again and continue pleasuring me. He’s ~30 and can easily do several rounds within a few hours when I feel like it.

As a reminder, on the flip side, when I do not give him a hint of sexual interest, he is a total gentleman, would never initiate when he doesn’t already feel that I’m interested, and cares for me tenderly with no sexual energy whatsoever. Sometimes I want to be ravished, but often I just want to feel loved for being myself. A HVM does each effortlessly at the right time.

Yeah my first three boyfriends were shit at sex and reading the way men talk about sex online, seeing the way it's portrayed, is bound to make any woman feel hopeless. That said, my partner is great at delivering loving and passionate sex (and yes, his dick does work – a little fully clothed kissing will have him ready to go). Just yesterday we were making out, he picked me up, carried me to the bed, worshipped my body all over, and ate me out with amazing technique. I had to nothing besides enjoy. This had already been our second sexual encounter of the day after a mutual masturbation session in the morning (this is not that common though, but we hadn't seen each other for some days). He will compliment me in the most cherishing ways, look me in the eyes (I've had so many men just stare blankly into the distance during sex), touch me gently where I like to be touched... he just makes me feel loved emotionally and physically. So yes, you can have a good love life with a man. ETA: fwiw I had to turn 28 and undo lots of sexual trauma first to experience this. ETA2: I'm btw also ovulating and I swear men can sense this. s if he had smelled me getting a little horny from writing this comment, he snuggled up to me shortly after I wrote it, got rock hard after 2 minutes of cuddling, seduced me like a pro, and masterfully ate me out again (while staying hard and excited throughout, I need 15-20 mins to orgasm). Afterward, I finished him off with my hands, he practically melted under my touch and came so hard. This is the stuff. 👍

Yes but his mouth is even better imo