List some cities in the US

I've lived in several major U.S. cities (and visited many others) over the course of 30-plus years, and unfortunately, I have never seen a city that meets all three of your criteria.

1. high volume of radfem and/or FDS women--not happening in any U.S. city I've seen

2. men that are less porn/social app driven--not happening in any U.S. city I've seen

3. highly-educated Gen X and/or millennials--fortunately, many U.S. cities fit this description; I would say any city that has at least a few universities and/or thriving tech/science/finance/medical industries will contain highly-educated people in their 20s-50s

This is a great question and I'm sorry for not answering it, but I would like to add that I'm especially curious about number 2 given that Pornhub (and many other sites) are now blocked in a large handful of states? I'm aware that there are VPNs and alternate porn sites to use, but I'm just curious how this is playing out in those states.

My guess for 1 & 3 would be major west coast cities like Portland, Seattle, San Francisco, Santa Barbara, and possibly Denver (in the Midwest)

Unfortunately I think most men are porn addicts, in every city.

IDEA…Maybe we should only date blind men?

There is no concentration of good men anywhere. They barely exist out in the wild. Men are not so enlightened that they think 'hang on, where are the other enlightened men out there? Let me go and be with them'. We live in a Patriarchal society. Rad Fem women are also not signposting their existence anywhere because ... we live in a Patriarchal society. Most women out in the wild haave severe internalised misogyny.

I would suggest going to an area populated by the gay community. While they might still be misogynistic, at least you are not going to be physically maimed by their brand of misogyny.

What about cities that meet one of the criteria for each of the criteria below