I guess they’re still like this! I haven’t been on an app since late 2022.
But there were so many men in their 30s that were unemployed and living with mom and dad.
These men shouldn’t be dating if they can’t even provide the bare minimum to women they are interested in. What do they do when they meet a woman they’re interested in? He’s not going to make her pay if he actually likes her.
It just seems these men should focus their energy on fixing their situations and become adult men.
I personally think when anyone dates (men, women, het or same sex attracted, DOESNT MATTER) you need to have your shit together and be independent. We should all want to be good partners. We can’t do that when we’re jobless, living with parents, no reliable form of transportation, no education.
Men are the biggest culprits of this but it holds true for everyone.
They're looking for women they can leech off of. Hobosexuals. That's why they have that lack of self pride and are still trying to "date."
Good men wouldn't be caught dead unemployed and trying to date. They would be too embarassed even if the lay off or something was out of their hands. They have too much pride and the drive and the need to be able to back that pride up with real shit...
I think some women will truly feel bad for these guys and hope one day he'll find the right job. Little do they know any man who is constantly in between jobs has bigger issues than employment.
Such a good point. And unless for legit circumstances/reasons (1% of them, probably eg laid off, early retirement, sabbatical, or trust fund (but the latter still sketchy b/c what are they DOING with their time?)), it just exposes their absolute lack of provider or care-for-her impulses. They're not on there for aaaany kind of meaningful relationship of connection of any kind. Just to take, use, and sadly, abuse women, and their resources..
They’re not even lying and telling you they’re day traders?! lol They aren’t even trying anymore.
I left OLD in 2021 and I haven’t looked back since. Around that time, men were telling me that they’re day traders, entrepreneurs, and doing startups. All this was code for bum, but they were trying to hide it!
They’re not even trying anymore 😂
I remember reading this one bio about this guy thinking that it was a flex how he spent $600 for a 12 week vacation in China. He was actually couch surfing and homeless in China for those weeks. The thing about him and these guys was that he had the audacity, delusion, and confidence to write about this “flex”.
I fuckin' don't! LOL. Especially not when it comes to employment....
But my work ethic is high. The man I'm with needs to outearn me and have an even better career that he is kicking butt at. Since men rule the world and more doors are more easily opened for them in the workplace, he better be doing a better job than me at "working"...
Once I dated a scrote who got dropped from his job and found another one after a few weeks. I never would have guessed he was unstable at work. But the whiney little man I had to put up with for those two weeks made my vagina dry up like the Sahara. I dumped him over it then he whined and complained, "You dumped me at my lowest!" Sir, you're weak.... I've never been dropped from a job?
Why would I not a hold man to the same standards I hold?
This is why it's important for us to hold our own selves to high standards and not let our standards for scrotes fall below that. In the end, we will end up with a better life and better scrote because of these things.
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I agree. I find men who lack ambition and work ethic incredibly unattractive. I've mentioned this before but when I was in college, I dated a guy who dropped out after about 2 months. I asked him any times what his plans were and every time I got a different answer. It quickly became obvious that this guy had no ambition at all. Once I realised that, my attraction for him evaporated.
Years later, I bumped into this guy at the wedding of a mutal friend. He was in a dead end job and never went back to college. My instincts about him proved correct. I'm so glad that I dumped this guy rather than letting him drag me down.
Why? Because they’re scrotes. Stop using dating apps and meet men in real life. Get more in person hobbies and develop better social skills. Find more friends and allow them to introduce you to more people. Stop letting technology ruin your dating scene and take back to the streets. Most people aren’t on dating apps. Go find the men who live in the real world.
They're bored and wasting women's time is their favourite free entertainment.
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They’re looking for their Mommy McBangMaid™️. Honestly, good thing they’re clearly filtering themselves like this, but if you needed more proof that men on dating apps are trash then this is it… 🚮
They call themselves “entrepreneurs “ or work in progress. In my mind it translates to “ I’m still on my mommies tit but incase you are wondering I am the prize, my meat cap is sexy so get used to it.”
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I guess they’re still like this! I haven’t been on an app since late 2022.
But there were so many men in their 30s that were unemployed and living with mom and dad.
These men shouldn’t be dating if they can’t even provide the bare minimum to women they are interested in. What do they do when they meet a woman they’re interested in? He’s not going to make her pay if he actually likes her.
It just seems these men should focus their energy on fixing their situations and become adult men.
I personally think when anyone dates (men, women, het or same sex attracted, DOESNT MATTER) you need to have your shit together and be independent. We should all want to be good partners. We can’t do that when we’re jobless, living with parents, no reliable form of transportation, no education.
Men are the biggest culprits of this but it holds true for everyone.
Because there are plenty of pickmes out there who will still touch their peens 🤮
Such a good point. And unless for legit circumstances/reasons (1% of them, probably eg laid off, early retirement, sabbatical, or trust fund (but the latter still sketchy b/c what are they DOING with their time?)), it just exposes their absolute lack of provider or care-for-her impulses. They're not on there for aaaany kind of meaningful relationship of connection of any kind. Just to take, use, and sadly, abuse women, and their resources..
They’re not even lying and telling you they’re day traders?! lol They aren’t even trying anymore.
I left OLD in 2021 and I haven’t looked back since. Around that time, men were telling me that they’re day traders, entrepreneurs, and doing startups. All this was code for bum, but they were trying to hide it!
They’re not even trying anymore 😂
I remember reading this one bio about this guy thinking that it was a flex how he spent $600 for a 12 week vacation in China. He was actually couch surfing and homeless in China for those weeks. The thing about him and these guys was that he had the audacity, delusion, and confidence to write about this “flex”.
Why? Because they’re scrotes. Stop using dating apps and meet men in real life. Get more in person hobbies and develop better social skills. Find more friends and allow them to introduce you to more people. Stop letting technology ruin your dating scene and take back to the streets. Most people aren’t on dating apps. Go find the men who live in the real world.
They're bored and wasting women's time is their favourite free entertainment.
They’re looking for their Mommy McBangMaid™️. Honestly, good thing they’re clearly filtering themselves like this, but if you needed more proof that men on dating apps are trash then this is it… 🚮
They call themselves “entrepreneurs “ or work in progress. In my mind it translates to “ I’m still on my mommies tit but incase you are wondering I am the prize, my meat cap is sexy so get used to it.”