So, we're all pretty smart here.
We can read men pretty well.
Men cannot be friends with women, but we are definitely capable of being friends with them.
The problem is that they seem to THINK they're friendship is worth something to us, even after they abuse us.
Because guess who is pretending I'm HIS FRIEND now?
The rapist "friendly nerd" guy.
It's bad enough when they pretend to be OUR friend and then backstab us, and all men will do this.
But then, when we manage to put up mental defenses against the "hey bestie" type of males that are really just predators, they act like WE like THEM behind their backs.
This guy's been bragging about how much fun we used to have together when we were younger, now.
So, not letting him near me, isn't quite enough. I've had to go and clarify with multiple people that, no, I am not his "friend." And no, I did not want to fuck him.
Our social circles are less violent and worth more, and men know they're on thin fucking ice.
I can't wait for this to finally blow up in his face.