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Recently, I went to a government agency because they had my information wrong. The customer service representative refused to investigate and insisted that my information was correct. I had to keep repeating myself and pushing the rep to consider other methods. I wasn’t rude or disrespectful. I simply kept asking the representative to investigate.(And I turned out to be right—it was another rep’s mistake, and they did have my information wrong.)
Five minutes into the conversation, a woman(customer) being helped at the window next to me started berating me, telling me to stop bothering the rep and just go home. I explained the situation to her, but she said, “You should just listen to the rep. The way you’re handling this is not right. People are waiting behind you, and you’re being a bad person for making them wait.”
I told her she did not know the whole situation, and this is my 3rd time at the office, but she replied, “I don’t want to have a conversation with you. My husband is missing. Happy New Year. End of conversation.”
This isn’t the first time a woman has tried to tell me what to do. Maybe it’s because I often run errands alone. If I had been with my mom, dad, or partner, I doubt she would have said anything.
But seriously, why? Why do some women feel the need to pressure others into conforming to societal standards and being a “good girl” so badly? I’ve never seen men publicly criticize other men’s normal actions like this. Men always support each other.
They feel the need to do this because they are so steeped in misogyny themselves, they can't imagine that a woman would have the GUTS to be forthright and bold.
You're holding up a mirror to them and revealing that weakness by just standing your ground (because they cannot do it) and it pisses them off.
Not only do scrotes constantly feel the need to "herd" us in public and dwindle us down, but so do women who only idolize scrotedom/the partiarchy.
F 'em. Sorry to her missing husband (if she were smart, she should probably be rejoicing LOL) and the pain she was probably experiencing there, but her bullshit does not mean you don't get to do what you went in there to do that day just because she is having a tough day. The world doesn't revolve around her problems and she doesn't get the room to pick on another woman because of it. Think about it... she would have never acted like that if you were a man.