Sick of this scrote BS

Thank you so much for the encouragement 🥲 I know I shouldn't get feelings after a first date, but the rejection is still tough to deal with regardless. My peace is my priority, and this guy did not bring me peace. Onto the next I suppose (maybe in another 3 years lol)

It'll get easier with more practice. But seriously, it has nothing to do with you. This guy is just playing games and it isn't so personal. Irritating, yes. Awful, yep. But it's not a reflection of your actual value at all. He's just a scrote doing what scrotes do. Like bees flying or ants crawling. You can't expect a scrote to do things that aren't scrote-aligned; they can't.

Imagine down the road with this fool and if he had kept the mask on for longer. You'd be extra roped in and way more disappointed when his games started to show. Be happy this idiot showed his ass early! Many times, women do not get that lucky. If I had a great date on Saturday, I'd honestly expect a little gift for the holiday. One of my better exes made me Easter baskets every year with actual real gifts + candy and stuff in them. After a date that great, you should expect something like that from a man, yes, even the next day!

Editing to add: I'd be a little wary of men who want a first date on a holiday weekend. Most HVM are spending their time with loved ones during those weekends. They're probably the types just trying to see if they can get laid on a holiday or just willy nilly want to "party" or something. We kind of know this stuff with Christmas, but I think that it could be used for any holiday at all.

Yeah, except my new average is only meeting one man I'm attracted to every 3 years 🙃 I'd date multiple prospects if they existed

Right?? I’m in the same boat. Can’t imagine having a ‘roster’ of high quality men where most ment are low-value… 😒

It's happened for me! But it happened at a time that I was really involved in community stuff (I was on a community art board). We did projects and stuff all over town that the public would attend. I was really amazed at the amount of HVM who crawled out of the woodwork and found me. I had a ton of fun going on dates with multiple men who weren't shitheads. That was the best experience I had in dating! I think mainly because I wasn't really looking and also because I was just out and about doing my thing.

This was in a cow town with a population of 8,000. I didn't think decent ment existed there at all.

Exactly! So sad how he still give men the benefit of the doubt 😢

My absolute cutoff is 72 hours, but that’s because I’m an ancient millennial. (I think the first iPhone came out around the time I graduated college.)

But yeah, 3 days after date 1 is my absolute upper limit. If he and I go out for dinner on, say, Friday night, and I don’t hear from him by dinnertime on Monday, it’s a block and delete.

Also, it was a holiday! He should have at least told you Happy Easter after such a great date the day before! What a lump!

I mean it was just a quick peck on the lips as he opened my car door. It was fast and unexpected, but I totally agree with what you're saying. It just added to the confusion of him not contacting me again, especially considering he said he was looking for a longterm relationship and his behavior on the date seemed to match up with that as well. I suppose he was just a good actor though.

Any guy who feels he needs to play this game in dating isn't HV. HVM don't need games/strategies like this; only women do.

Misogynist men are the only ones who use stuff like this.