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To all my FDS queens, has this ever happened to you?
I’m at the age where people are getting married and having kids. All of my social media is littered with marriages, engagements, baby showers, and kids. I feel no rush to get settle down (or am I?). However whenever I open up social media, BAM! I’m hit in the face with someone’s wedding or baby!
How do you all cope with this?
I feel slightly bad but then I get a dose of reality where women talk about how they are married for 10 + years and they feel like prisoners, they feel like single mothers with a ring on it, how they do almost everything alone while the husband works oversees.
People like to romanticize the fleeting moments of getting married and having a baby but never do they document how the man becomes hostile towards the wife when she’s pregnant. How they order pizza when you are risking your life.
One man had the nerve to be angry that his wife who is on chemo went to take a long nap instead of making him snacks to have while he watches football.
Women being happy in marriage is the exception to the rule. It does happen but most women are not privileged for such a wonderful life where a man actually acts like one.
I always admired Dolly Parton and how long she stayed married until I heard how she got inspired by the song Jolene. A woman flirts with her husband all the time and he enjoys the attention.
All my admiration flushed down the toilet when I realized that man is just a vintage scrote.
Hugh Jackman was always by Deborah’s side until he cheats on her and moves on with another woman.
Never ever assume you are missing out on things when you see ppl getting married or have a baby. But you’ll definitely miss out on true peace and happiness when you allow a XY creature to come between you and your dream.
With other words money is your true husband your dream is what you should never miss out on. Even men understand that part when they use you.