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Perhaps it's their mommy emasculating these poor tough alphas by telling them to clean their room and shower when they still lived at home in their 20s. Perhaps their wife divorced them for sitting behind their pc all day shirtless and drinking. Maybe some EVIL bitch called security on them when they were just trying to flirt (aka bothering her at work).
Clearly these sad little boys have biiiiggg emotions and women have been SO MEAN TO THEM. Like how dare she keep the house to raise his 5 kids in while he cheated. How dare she call him abusive when he hit her, she was the one NAGGING, sheesh. Men are clearly the victim here!
Anyway, now they all use it as an excuse to not be ready for a relationship. I used to match every other guy on Bumble when I didn't add monogamous LTR. Now I rarely get matches. Why? Because their poor widdle feelings are hurt and god forbid a woman is holding them accountable. However, if you tell them you don't want marriage/kids because you actually got fumbled and don't want to be dependent, it is YOU who needs therapy.
Make it make sense.
I agree. What’s interesting to me is that when the roles are switched, and I’m the one displaying “avoidant” traits, the same avoidant men begin to chase and beg. LVM only literally want what they can’t have. If a woman wants a relationship, they’re scared of commitment. When a woman wants to take it slow or multi-date, they pressure and nag for commitment. It’s always about their benefit alone, which is why dating should ALWAYS solely be about how we as females can benefit.
lol felt this so hard dealt with a man like this i just kept focusing on myself and school. ALSO there's a narrative floating around the manosphere social media not to date women who have trauma cause that takes away from loving the man. Everything revolves around how much they can get from the woman and not what they can give which is usually nothing. im not on this earth to live the same pick me life my mom did of giving her husband everything she gave her youth, patience, hard work, gave him children and for what lol.