"All men are polygamous by nature" 🤡

So, recently I came across this guy who told me that all men are polygamous by nature and are lustful. For context I'm a Muslim woman. Anyways, this is not true and I asked him if all men were polygamous by nature than why didn't Allah gave Adam multiple wives. He wasn't able to reply. He accused me of hating all men just because I didn't want a lustful polygamous man, and told me that powerful men throughout history were polygamous. If any woman has common sense you'll realize these men are telling on themselves. If a woman married these men they'll be the first starter wife and once he can afford the woman he truly wants, she will be replaced. Most things redpill, blackpill and MGTOW men say about other men are a projection of their desires. They are essentially telling you that finances are what is keeping them from being polygamous. A lot of men are in monogamous marriages, in fact the majority of men. These men who claim BS like all men are polygamous by nature are trying to get you to accept being in such a marriage because they think they can get you to think, "Well if all men are polygamous by nature, I might as well accept it" and accept him. He's the only one who is polygamous by nature and projecting his nature on to other men. It's a way low value men can lower women's boundaries, and get her to accept a marriage she doesn't want. If he was rich, attractive or in any way valuable there might have been some desperate women or gold diggers who accepted him, but nope. Unfortunately a lot of pickmes fall for such men and their lies. Ever since men like Andrew Tate have been converting to Islam, many men follow him and have become redpilled. Good Muslim men have become very rare, and no good man can be ultra conservative religious wise, in my opinion. They have become very conservative and have been using the religious scriptures to manipulate and subjugate women and if a woman doesn't know her own religion or these men's manipulation, she's doomed. Fortunately my family is alright with me dating non Muslims also as long as he's willing to convert before marriage and also they warn me to actively avoid overly religious Muslim men. You can easily find these religious men on platforms like TikTok, Instagram and Reddit arguing with random women and doing their best to lower their standards. While polygamy is allowed in Islam it is not mandatory, and the fact that there are prophets and even wealthy Muslim men who have one wife, when they could have had many, shows it's not the nature of every man and simply an alternative life choice that's allowed in Islam. I urge women to be careful if you're dating conservative religious men. A lot of Muslim men also have a tendency to date non Muslim women, dump her and demand a practicing and covered Muslim wife. Many religious men, not just Muslim men, are lustful, because they are highly repressed and raised on the beliefs that women exist to please them in the bedroom, that women will tempt them and lure them to sins, that women have to obey and do all that the husband commands, and more. Also if you're a woman who is planning to marry a man from another religion, I would suggest to learn about women's rights from the perspective of your future husband's religion and to be careful. A lot of men also twist religious scriptures like Quranic verses and Hadith to manipulate women to do as they want / to spread their agenda. There are so many of these so called leader of the house, protectors and maintainers of women today arguing online with women because they don't like their role to provide a woman, to pay her mahr ( Bridal gift ), yet they would expect the woman to cook, clean, have sex with him like a pro, give him children and raise them on top of that to split the bills 50 50 OR to settle for bread crumbs. A lot of men follow religion only when it suits them. Any woman who does all the traditional roles of a woman yet pays for a man she's being scammed. Women who also know the least about her religion and men, are the ones who the manosphere men will take advantage of. The dating market out there is really bad today, especially for religious women. So be careful.