In this video, the wife had an epidural after being in labor for 24 hours. They get the hospital bill, and the husband told her to pay it since in his words "couldn't hold out for a few more hours".
This is why you dont date a man who goes 50/50.
I hope she divorces him.
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I genuinely feel a pit in my stomach when I hear about men treating the mother of their children like this. This is why FDS is so important. We must protect our wombs at all costs. If you procreate with a scrote, your life is fucked for 18 years. You’ll never be able to get rid of him. Your child will suffer. You will suffer. If you want children, do it alone. You’ll be much better off. So many women learn it the hard way after it's too late :(
I'm on an investment forum.
Dude writes in asking how he should invest his savings. He discloses he earns $5k per week and his wife earns $1k per week. They go 50/50 on everything.
Loads of men jump on and offer financial advice. Not one of them suggest that the financial split is unfair and frankly, not sustainable for her. I am infuriated on her behalf.
I mean $8,000 is an extremely cheap deal for a surrogate, not to mention all the other unpaid things shes's doing for him.
Men are so stingy.
Women need to stop fearing the "gold digger" label.
Lvm should just be grateful that they got to pass on their mediocre genes in the first place.
Edit:
Plus 24 hours of labor? The epidural probably sped the process up and saved the childs life/from potential health issues/a c-section.
Risks of Prolonged Labor
Prolonged labor increases the chances that you will need a C-section.
Labor that takes too long can be dangerous to the baby. It may cause:
low oxygen levels for the baby
abnormal heart rhythm in the baby
abnormal substances in the amniotic fluid
uterine infection
If the baby is in distress, you will need an emergency delivery. This is the time where close monitoring is important to the health of you and your baby.
He should thank his wife for reducing the chance of a stillborn or permanently disabled child. I mean raising a special needs child is way more expensive than $8,000.
IF ANYTHING She saved him money and he still has the audacity to not pay.
How pathetic.
Men are like:
Rape victims getting access to safe Abortions = "Bad and should be banned. Women/young girls should just suffer through the pregnancies. Women who abort should be imprisoned."
Paying money to save their own child's life = "Nah too expensive, it's not a man's responsibility. The women should pay for it. Men shouldn't have to face any charges for neglect."
Men just generally don't care about women or children. They just want control over everything. Disgusting.
I would strongly recommend you check out the book, "Loving to Survive: Sexual Terror, Men's Violence, and Women's Lives" by Dee L.R. Graham. It offers a pretty good explanation for your question
JFC I hope this poor woman divorces this dusty arsehole. And tells all their mutual friends what he did.
Because women do not understand that men hate us. They lie to themselves about the nature of males. I am not blaming them for this, because we were ALL conditioned by patriarchy to be this way. We were ALL kept in the dark about the nature of males. I just hope they wake up like we have.
My bff is in a 7 yr relationship with a 50/50 man. Their first date was a coffee date too. Idk if he made her pay off herself that day too. I'm going to ask her. But recently they've been arguing because she wants to get married and he doesn't. And guess guess his reasons? Because he doesn't want to lose his 401k if they get divorced. 😆 for my friend she's upset because she doesn't think he should be going into marriage with the divorce in mind, but she completely doesn't see the truth of this man who cares more about his money than he does about her and told her to her face!!! And she's just in complete denial and keeps saying that eh shows her love in other ways so she keeps staying. Even though she is definitely a mommymcbangmaid. She breaks her back cleaning the home while he's a disgusting slob, plus she works 60 hour weeks at her job with a 3 hour commute because he makes her feel guilty a out quitting her job that is killing her because he's too paranoid that she'll start using him for his money. But then she turns around and tried to convey that she has this perfect relationship when she clearly doesn't. She's just in complete denial.
If this was me I'd make my husband pay...with his life 😈
I'd be paying an attorney for divorce papers.