These men are literal brats. They're children. No, actually, even when I was a kid I didn't have this kind of tantrum over a goddamn cake. Also, a toy for Christmas? Are you 8? And manchildren out here wondering why we are so dry and don't want to date them. lololol
If anything, this is proof that naturally, men want to be the one to give rather than to receive. Men never appreciate anything a woman gives to him, whether that's a gift, time, attention, or sex without him having to work for it. I have read that, whatever a man gives you, only give back to him falling just short of 20% of his intensity, if that makes sense.
Oh, grass-fed meat. 🤤 He's such a bland fuck to turn that one down. Good thing you were able to still redeem it!
"LVM don't appreciate anything you do for them, ever."
You know, it's funny, but FDS can help men too if they just listened to us for once instead of fighting us the whole way through. Men cannot fall in love with a woman who is too nice or easy with him. She needs to make him work for her kindness and attention. If the chase cannot be conducted, he can never be attracted to her. Why would men want to fight against that fact and try so hard to turn women into their male partners who can treat him like a little princess? 💀
When women treat men the way a man would treat a woman he's actually interested in.. in this case, giving him a nice gift when he doesn't deserve it or proved himself to be a good friend material in your life.. it does nothing but turn him off completely. He doesn't want help or be wined/dined or be ~saved~. He wants to be the hero to the woman who can hold it over his head and ask him to jump for her if he's really that into her.
Note: Admittedly this guy was just a friend of yours, but sadly men cannot tell the difference between women he dates here and there, women he bangs, and women he talks to as a friend. In his eyes, they're all the same: Conquests. So to him, you giving him a gift card simply because you were being a good pal doesn't register into his brain... all he sees is OMG SHE IS IN LOVE WITH ME AND I HAVE PROOF BECAUSE SHE'S TRYING TO WHORE ME OUT TO HER WITH GRASS FED MEAT!
>Oh, grass-fed meat. 🤤 He's such a bland fuck to turn that one down. Good thing you were able to still redeem it!
And he LOVED red meat! Free samples of his favorite thing literally meant nothing to him!
To the rest of your comment: Ugh. Crazy thing is, I'm not sure he really viewed me as a friend either.
He was slowly becoming emotionally abusive, weird push/pull behavior, and stomping on my boundaries. Like he started suddenly asking super invasive questions about my personal life, then got offended when I asked if he was flirting and he insisted we were just friends, then weeks later asked me on a private vacation to a cabin in the woods and offered to buy me ski lessons. He got so upset when I told him to take his new girlfriend instead. But like, dude, what do you expect?
I only found out months ago from our old boss that around this time, he apparently ran to her complaining I was needy and had a crush on him. She said he was "obviously projecting" and that she laughed in his face.
I couldn’t agree more, it seems like everything is projection with these clowns! Honestly, at this point I’m so fucking done and if I could date women I would (really does go to show that sexuality isn’t a choice - alas). But I suppose the positive is that I can now take what I know about courting and apply it to myself, i.e. if a guy isn’t doing all the kind of shit I used to freely and happily do for my exes he’s not it. Though I feel like I’ll be waiting a VERY long time before I see a guy willing and able to extend himself like that. Your other replies below about free meat guy pretty much nail it!
This is probably terrible but I laughed so hard at the thought of some manlet throwing a testerical tantrum having been given the cake in the first post.His wife should have smashed him over the head with it.
I would eat that cake with my friends and refund his shitty gift and take back the money.But I’d also never touch a man who fucking collects Transformers with a ten foot pole.
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"Hello reddit, why does my ungrateful wife want to divorce me after 20 years of a perfect marriage where I did everything for her?"
The only thing those scrotes should get are signed divorce papers.
Imagine being so upset about a CAKE. 🤦♀️😂
What adult in their right mind still want TOYS for Christmas. Manchildren forever.
The cake looks yummy though What a brat
Like petulant, ungrateful little boys. Dump!!!
These men are literal brats. They're children. No, actually, even when I was a kid I didn't have this kind of tantrum over a goddamn cake. Also, a toy for Christmas? Are you 8? And manchildren out here wondering why we are so dry and don't want to date them. lololol
If anything, this is proof that naturally, men want to be the one to give rather than to receive. Men never appreciate anything a woman gives to him, whether that's a gift, time, attention, or sex without him having to work for it. I have read that, whatever a man gives you, only give back to him falling just short of 20% of his intensity, if that makes sense.
Toddler-Tantrum because of a cake.
The sad thing is that the women often stay in the
Holy shit even if the 2nd guy was grateful it's gotta be considered pedophilic to date a "man" who's literally into transformers. Strong reddit vibes.
Also I know nothing about cars but the first cake seems pretty cool simply in virtue of being car shaped.
This is probably terrible but I laughed so hard at the thought of some manlet throwing a testerical tantrum having been given the cake in the first post. His wife should have smashed him over the head with it.
I would eat that cake with my friends and refund his shitty gift and take back the money. But I’d also never touch a man who fucking collects Transformers with a ten foot pole.
Those realistic cakes are expensive!