That's it. Yes, there might be one or two worth dating in that massive trash pile, but at what cost? You're telling me I have to wade through those filthy sewers for months, or even years, until I find someone worth my time and energy? No thanks.
Men who talk about how they "love to please women" and their p33n size... I don't trust it, because they just sound like sex-obsessed slobbering gross people. Keep that stuff hidden in your brain when you're meeting people. Literally anyone can have sex and be somewhat okay at it - is that all you bring to the table? What's your personality?Men who are "figuring out what they want" almost always just want a friend-with-benefits but will string along a woman who's looking for a relationship until something better comes along.
If you're "meh" about dating then why are you on an online dating app? Go find something better to do.
I never understood being on a DATING app and not knowing your goals or being meh about dating. When I was not sure about dating because of school, I didn’t date. Because I had better things to do with my time lol.
Oh, they know exactly what their goals are: sleep with as many women as will let them and enjoy all the fringe benefits of relationships without any commitment or investment on their part. They're just not being upfront about it because that's not exactly going to get any women on side, now is it? No, better just to pretend that 'me dumb man', 'me no know what me want' so that you go extra easy on them and give them lots of space (i.e. sit by politely and silently while they do whatever with whoever whenever) and don't put any 'pressure' on them by having actual expectations of any kind lest you scare them away, the poor overwhelmed things. It's just so hard being a grown man, you know?
And I mean, what the fuck even is 'an existential approach' to dating? We are at a new word salad low here.
Welcome to OLD
I can’t believe men actually feel comfortable advertising their wants when those are their wants.
Men who talk about how they "love to please women" and their p33n size... I don't trust it, because they just sound like sex-obsessed slobbering gross people. Keep that stuff hidden in your brain when you're meeting people. Literally anyone can have sex and be somewhat okay at it - is that all you bring to the table? What's your personality? Men who are "figuring out what they want" almost always just want a friend-with-benefits but will string along a woman who's looking for a relationship until something better comes along.
If you're "meh" about dating then why are you on an online dating app? Go find something better to do.
The scary part is THESE MEN ARE THE NORM in the U.S. Mainstream American society sees nothing wrong with their behavior.
If a woman dares criticize these men, then she is the asshole in libfem society.
I never understood being on a DATING app and not knowing your goals or being meh about dating. When I was not sure about dating because of school, I didn’t date. Because I had better things to do with my time lol.
At this point, these should be considered memes.