Link: I (41F) discovered my partner (42M) watched Teen pδrn
Summary: A single mum with teen daughters discovers the scrote she's dating faps to teen porn. Cue the reddit scrotes ganging up on her and call her a kinkshamer for being uncomfortable with a pornsick man fetishizing teens being around her teen daughters. (seriously what is it with people crying kinkshaming/rpude whwenever harmful kinks are called out?)
In other words The reddit scrotes actually bashed a mom for daring to be concerned with the safety of her daughters.
Downvote me but I don't think a single mom should date until the kids have moved out if she cannot assure that there will be zero -absolutely zero- contact between the man and her children or access to pictures, contact information etc. of her children, ever. And that isn't realistic. I wouldn't date at all. It's just way, way too dangerous, especially if you have daughters. My wants (like having a romantic partner) are not more important than my children's need for safety.
There are sick men out there who specifically target single mothers to gain access to children they can abuse. And let's face it: how many children have actually ever profited from having a stepdad or "mom's new boyfriend" around compared to the children who have been traumatised, bullied and abused by them?