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I often hear (especially from redpillers) how if women don't get married (or at least in a LTR) by the age 30 they're doomed to die alone with cats because they've hit "The Wall" because men inherently value youth, beauty and fertility (and only have those three things to offer to men).
I honestly don't see how growing older and supposedly being less attractive to men is such a horrible fate, especially since the vast majority of men literally have nothing to offer aside from maybe sex, but even then they can easily replaced with a vibrator. Studies have shown that men will often abandon their sick wives/gf.at the drop of a hat so you can't even count of them to be loyal or have your back.
Not to mention the average man has so much baggage that it's not even worth dealing with them. Alot of them either have bad hygiene, got serious mental issues (narcissism,psychopathy) , have STDS, are drug addicts, are cheaters, or have their minds warped by porn(porn addiction), are bitter redpillers, have criminal records, are physically/mentally/sexually abusive, suffer from gaming addictions, or are simply inept manchildren that refuse to do chores/ help out around the house.
If anything, they sound like a liability. Im not gonna lose out on anything by becoming less attractive to them.
I honestly look forward to becoming a cat lady. Don't threaten me with a good time. Cats are loyal and intelligent creatures. Spending the best years of my life being a bangmaid for some inept pornsick manchild/incel who only sees me as a baby factory and a sex servant? No thanks.
The Redpill ideology used to really depress me because I heard it so much I started to believe it. Then I realized it comes from fear. These men are terrified that *they* are going to enter middle age completely alone. As we know that wouldn’t be the end of the world because there are other ways to have a meaningful life, but having been a former trad conservative, I can tell you that that culture brainwashes both men and women to believe that they have NO purpose on this earth other than to get married and raise children. Oh you’re 50 with no kids? Why are you still here then? That’s basically the message, and they wonder why suicide rates are so high.
When I used OLD (never again) I saw so, so many men who were 40+, never married, and were just now looking for a wife. I spoke with a few of them and they seemed very lost, like they still had no idea what they wanted out of life and thought the marriage and kids route was it because that was what they were hearing online. These men acted like they just hadn’t been out in the world very much; their social skills were that of a very isolated, and probably terminally online person. I felt bad for them, actually, but I couldn’t help them.
For any woman reading this who starts believing their nonsense because you hear it so often — don’t. It’s just fear. When they say “You are going to (insert terrible fate here) because you didn’t settle,” just remember that they are really saying “Please don’t let this happen to ME because someone didn’t settle for ME.” I know I shouldn’t, but now I kind of feel sorry for them.
Also, men are awful at assessing how old women are - many millennial women I know in their thirties actually look like they are still in their 20s precisely because they didn't prematurely age due to scrote stress. The difference in looks between women who married manchildren who stress them out vs women who married HVM or just don't keep dead weight 'boyfriends' around is fucking night and day in my personal observation.
Men who use the "wall" are historically inaccurate.
One common belief about the Renaissance is that children, especially girls, married young. In some noble houses marriages were indeed contracted at a young age, for reasons of property and family alliance, but in fact the average age of marriage was quite old--in the middle twenties.
Marriage statistics indicate that the mean marriage age for the Elizabethan and Jacobean eras was higher than many people realize. Data taken from birthdates of women and marriage certificates reveals mean marriage ages to have been as follows:
1566-1619 27.0 years
1647-1719 29.6 years
1719-1779 26.8 years
1770-1837 25.1 years
The last time society thought 30 was too old for a woman to marry, my mother was in high school. That was the late 50's.
The guys that say this garbage aren't able to attract a woman of any age, so this just another cope by projection.
I did everything right. Got married young, didn't sleep around, was loyal and faithful, and when I was in an accident and broke my spine, my husband no longer wanted me. I nearly died alone whilst married at age 26. Who was there for me? My dog Ginger, my girlfriends, and my mother. That dog followed me everywhere for 6 years straight worrying about me, checking to see if I was okay, lying down beside me to keep me warm when I'd black out and hit the floor, etc. No male will ever care as much as my dog did. RIP, fur angel Ginger.
The female contestants on the golden bachelor are proof the wall doesn't exist.
I agree. The average guy is LV so if you are in a relationship, the chances are the guy is LV. LVM will just bring more problems into your life.
While reading this, The Whatever Podcast comes to mind.