Dear Annie: I’ve dated a man for five years. He used to work, prior to the pandemic, but he hasn’t really actively applied to jobs. My biggest issue is the fact that I’m paying all the expenses for the household we share together, and he doesn’t need to do anything to assist me.
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"sit down with a financial planner so he can clearly see he isn't contributing anything financially"
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Seriously!?! Weaponized incompetence isn't him being incompetent; it's strategic.
He knows he isn't contributing to the household and just doesn't give a damn. The *only* solution is separation.
Who will pay the financial planner? She will, because he’s unemployed. So she can pay the financial planner to tell her boyfriend that he’s a broke leech.
He'd have been evicted after 2 months of not having a job. Don't pay for d1ck, ladies.
she's doing all that for a BOYFRIEND OF FIVE YEARS. 🤡
Dear Frustrated,
Don't renew your lease. Tell your man you got a promotion and want to move to a nicer place. Have the movers take your things to a storage unit no one knows about and have his things sent to his mom's front lawn. Block and delete his number. Find yourself a new apartment. Done.
I keep hearing all these stories about helathy able-bodied men who are lazy or outright refuse to work. Is this a new phenomenon, or just getting exposed becuz women got internet now? 🤔
I'm scared he'll beat her eventually 💔