Chicago man is suing after his name and photo were included in a disparaging post on a popular Facebook group called, "Are We Dating the Same Guy?"
There are several Facebook "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" Facebook groups – including one that is local to Chicago/Naperville/Elgin. Nikko D'Ambrosio said the Facebook group's local chapter has ruined his reputation – and he is hoping a new Illinois law will help.
Filed Monday in U.S. District Court in Chicago, D'Ambrioso's lawsuit names dozens of women, one defendant's male relative, and several tech companies after posts started circulating in the Facebook group with his name, photo, and harassing text messages he reportedly sent to women.
D'Ambrosio's attorneys liken his reputation now to a digital scarlet letter. They want Facebook and Meta to intervene and provide strict moderation.
"We've been working on this for several months. We've tried everything but sue these people. We tried sending them registered letters, sending them cease-and-desist letters - to no avail," said attorney Daniel Nikolic, "and ultimately. we had to go take this recourse because our hand was forced, and it wouldn't take down these posts."
D'Ambrosio's attorneys deny their client sent the messages – and added that even if he did, the content would be protected under the First Amendment as free speech.
D'Ambrosio's attorneys hope a new Illinois anti-doxing law – which went into effect Jan. 1 - could bolster the case, which they see as the first of its kind. The attorneys are now fielding hundreds of calls from other men who have seen their personal information attached to similar forums.
He brought this on himself. Does he not realize he outed himself and no woman will date him? Unless it's some desperate pick-me.
I am fucking livid. These assholes know full well those anti-doxxing laws were made to protect women and minors from male psychopaths online (who are usually stalkers, murderers, and sex offenders offline). For a MAN have the audacity to claim 'victimhood' in this context absolutely fucking enrages me. I am incensed. Angry isn't a strong enough word. This guy can fuck STRAIGHT OFF.
"D'Ambrosio's attorneys deny their client sent the messages – and added that even if he did, the content would be protected under the First Amendment as free speech."
Harassment is free speech?
"Nikko D'Ambrosio said the Facebook group's local chapter has ruined his reputation". Yeah, that's the actual point of those fb pages 😂
I want to see these text messages.
For everyone's sake, these text messages should be made as public as possible so we can all understand the full extent of his depravity.
This man is a little bitch. Can you imagine how nasty you have to be to go to the extent of suing, as opposed to just...stopping being mean to women?
It's no different from a Yelp review. They can just start Yelp but for shitty guys. Even that's been done. It's not a new concept. He's going to lose the suit.
It's highly unlikely that he wins this, hopefully anyways, but the implications in the off chance that he does are rather alarming. It means women would once again be silenced and no longer able to warn one another about which men to stay away from in order to avoid being victimized. Men really want women to remain ignorant about the threats they pose so they can capitlize on our naivety. It's no wonder they put so much damn effort into giving places like FDS a bad rep.
Pickmes strike again!!!
It's ok for me to harrass women because it's free speech but women warning other women about it needs to be censored.