Dad is upset and makes a video about how upset he is that the mom is not here to take the kid. Meanwhile, he's the one who asked for full custody because he did not want to pay child support 🙄.
Another deterrent which I saw - was how impossible it can be for a woman to get an income large enough to support a family when I found it already too hard to earn enough to support myself even with college and a university degree. I could get a job in the city as a single but as a family could not afford to live there. I was stuck in a small town and my ex didn’t realize he didn’t even need a court order to keep the children there. He got a court order to prevent me from leaving town with the children without his permission at the same I got one that supposedly protected me from him. The police let me tell them over and over again about him stalking, harassing, threatening and assaulting me and just kept munching on the popcorn because I was nothing now but a spectacle for their enjoyment because my ex was their mate. I wasn’t even safe in public until a judge got hold of the evidence and tore everyone a new one. A few years later, I remarried, moved, and tried to get my career back on track.
Another deterrent which I saw - was how impossible it can be for a woman to get an income large enough to support a family when I found it already too hard to earn enough to support myself even with college and a university degree. I could get a job in the city as a single but as a family could not afford to live there. I was stuck in a small town and my ex didn’t realize he didn’t even need a court order to keep the children there. He got a court order to prevent me from leaving town with the children without his permission at the same I got one that supposedly protected me from him. The police let me tell them over and over again about him stalking, harassing, threatening and assaulting me and just kept munching on the popcorn because I was nothing now but a spectacle for their enjoyment because my ex was their mate. I wasn’t even safe in public until a judge got hold of the evidence and tore everyone a new one. A few years later, I remarried, moved, and tried to get my career back on track.