A 30 Year Age Gap...insane.

Right? That baby is going to come out a little funny. Old men with their worthless sperm have no problem impregnating a younger women while bitching about older pregnant women, even though by her having a child with his weak ass sperm she might as well be having a geriatric pregnancy, her poor eggs can do so much.

I hope it's the last one.

Me too, karma should be a btch more often as the justice system let's these emotional and psychological abusers off cot free their whole lives. Time for accountability azholes.

Right? Hollywood has to be considerate to their female audience. We are visual creatures after all 🤣

THIS. I get pissy when I am forced to watch ugly men do anything that only hot women are allowed to do. And I can only suspend my reality so much when its an ugly dude paired with a hot woman.

It's strange how men degrade each other on who's got stamina or not in bed, both amongst themselves and women, but they never mock stamina of keeping a long term relationship strong. For anyone who wants to learn how men operate and treat women, Nicolas Cage married:

Patricia Arquette 1995 to 2001 so 6 years. He married her when she was 27. He was 31.

He had no kids with her.

Lisa Marie Presley 2000 but she divorced him after 3 months.

He married her when she was 34. He was 36.

He had no kids with her.

Alice Kim 2004 to 2016 so 12 years.

He married her when she was 19. He was 40.

He had one kid with her.

Erika Koike 2019 for 4 days before it was annulled.

He married her when she was 36. He was 55.

He had no kids with her.

Riko Shibata 2021 to 2022 so 2 years.

He married her when she was 27. He was 57.

He has one kid with her.

Anyone notice the pattern... That's why women need to know a general (not in-depth) relationship history of men.

Media and social media are driving patriarchy. That needs to change fast.

I just googled it, it seems Patricia had irreconcilable differences and Lisa Marie just decided to divorce after 3 months. So irreconcilable differences says to me that he's either extremely hard to live with ie no compromise or tact or he is an abusive ahole.

I know this is unpopular to say but for the most part, anytime a man dates "out'' of his culture (not race), there is a high probability that something is wrong with him.

But before I upset anyone reading this- men that come from healthy, intact families want partners that fit in with their families and so tend to date within their social circles and people who they feel will fit into their world.

For example, I was traveling in an Eastern European country and the 2 men that aggressively pursued me were not good catches by their local cultural standards- but I couldn't see that because I was lacking in some context. One of them was a seriously hypocritical orthodox Christian that was prob a narc but I couldn't see it because he kept pulling the "you don't understand my culture" card. The other was sweet but he was not a provider- so women in his country don't mess with him.

Most women of color and especially women from lesser developed countries are brainwashed to think that white men are a "come up" but my source (90 Day Fiance lol) makes it obvious that this isn't the case. Interestingly enough, most women I meet from Slavic countries and highly educated African families are ruthless about maximizing what they get from ALL kinds of men and I love it.

There is likely a financial and social support angle here as well. I am guessing his age mates had their own money whereas the younger women do not. And regardless of race, these young women could be under social pressure from their families to have kids young with a provider to be set up for life. Even if these young women have a great set of girlfriends their age- those girlfriends might be giving them bad advice that is driven by monetary gain.

For me, its the physical attraction factor. I just am not attracted to men that look older than 44. I am 40 but a female 40 is waaaay different than a male 40. I have tried the "you will become attracted to him if he provides" and it just did not work for me. Google "I am not attracted to older men" and you can see how prevalent women are gaslit about this.