I remember talking to this man about dating and he said this about looks. He was someone who was frustrated about wanting someone he finds physically attractive but said the times he finds someone attractive she already is taken. He was slightly above average looking (as men would say it, mid) .... Do majority men really believe this? It's not just men, I heard from women that you don't have to be with the best looking guy when choosing a partner and not to go for looks. It feels discouraging. What do you think?
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men feel they can date up because women we are always going through the effort to better ourselves. It's women that are socialized to look, maintain, educate, and behave a certain way. Men are just running around doing whatever they want and think they can pick up a beautiful woman cause all it takes is one pick me to say yes. women "date down" because honestly every man is just from one bad situation to another. but i dont think men collectively just decided to all be fugly to troll the women they act like their fugliness was a choice.
feel like this question also adds commentary to another post I saw here earlier about "women always have to challenge dating roles" and men just exist.
If this were the 1950s and women couldn’t have jobs, bank accounts or birth control, then I’d say this guy was right. But now that we aren’t forced to marry these fuglies, he’s delusional.
What @OhMyDior says is still true though: it only takes one desperate Pickme and he’s set.
Honestly men need to raise the bar in the looks dept. They’re so repulsive to me anymore, I can’t imagine lowering my standards.
Also…Why are you discouraged by what a scrote has to say? Ignore him. Only give men a chance if they are attractive to you.
Someone has said that this world is a Man's casino with hookers and blackjack, therefore they are entitled, and encouraged, to pick and choose from the prettiest, the youngest and the most desirable women. Women were never afforded the same luxury, and can only hope to be chosen by those entitled scrotes.
The world is changing, women are wising up and casino is crumblingdown, but too many men are still clinging to their beloved casino and entitlement, unable to evolve beyond being a parasite. That's why so many of them are angry, incel-ish, redpilled and depressed.