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Woman nearly killed by her military scrote husband

While scrotes as a whole are a liability, the ones in the military tend to be especially unhinged. Most of them are violent, misogynistic and bigoted as fuck. They'll snap on you in a heartbeat , often for no reason like what happened to the poor lady in the link above. The comments are really saddening.

There's a reason i especially don't touch miliary scrotes with 50 foot pole. I don't feel like walking on eggshells just so he doesn't choke/shoot me while hallucinating im the enemy in bumfuck vietnam/afghanistan.

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Unknown member

Jul 26, 2023

Again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again.

Stay away from military men and police officers. They can be your colleagues, neighbors, and acquaintances. But DO NOT date, fuck, or marry them.

dolores

Jul 28, 2023

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Agreed. An acquiantance of mine is a military guy; and the whole culture rots a man (like Lundy Bancroft says). He started cheating on his girlfriend when he was deployed, and once he got a taste for it, he’s never stopped.

After how he lied to my friend and broke her heart, and now is keeping her on a situationship leash together with his other mistresses, I know for sure I will never date a guy with any military background. I’ve heard too many awful accounts from servicewomen that this guy is a very typical case.

Unknown member

Jul 29, 2023

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Thanks for sharing. I've heard countless horror stories about mliitary men from women I know and women I don't know. I'll add your story to the mountain of evidence that 99.99% of military men are toxic waste.

~ICE~C0LD~

Jul 26, 2023

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As a person with officially diagnosed ptsd I've never done anything like this.

Even when I had night terrors/hallucinations/flashbacks during the early untreated stages of my ptsd I still had control of my mind and body. Even when I was heavily medicated. All the medications do is emotionally numb, and sedate you.

Like I could literally be in the middle of a fire and the meds would prevent me from having most of my hyper vigilant responses. My mind basically turned into jello. The purpose of the medications is to reduce/stop the constant alarm bells that go off in someones head because the constant stress is exhausting.

Ptsd does not effect self awareness or make people involuntarily aggressive. It can make you more paranoid, depressed, irritable or cause all kinds of other problems though. People with ptsd are wayyy more likely to self harm, be abused or isolate themselves than go around harming other people.

A man going out of his way to hurt others is not a symptom of ptsd. That's just abusive and entitled behavior.

Ptsd is not an excuse for strangling someone. Why do we almost never see female veterans act like this?

If men ever use ptsd as an excuse for being abusive pieces of shit then women should never feel bad about leaving and reporting them.

If a man chokes you it's because he hates you. What next? Is he gonna murder her and blame it on his hallucinations?

I feel really bad for her. I feel like she really cares about him and wants to help. I hate seeing loving compassionate people get taken advantage of.

I hope she leaves him and adopts a pet or child instead. It's way more fulfilling to nurture and protect someone that actually deserves it.

flamelink7

Jul 27, 2023

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I hope she leaves him and adopts a pet or child instead. It's way more fulfilling to nurture and protect someone that actually deserves it.

And appreciates it. I find children and animals to be far more grateful and appreciateive of love than any scrote. Scrotes rarely, if ever appreciate the sacrifices women make for them.

"Ptsd is not an excuse for strangling someone. Why do we almost never see female veterans act like this?."

Exactly!

Especially notable since the military is HORRIBLE to women. Women are treated terribly. Sexual assault of women is rampant there. And most of the time they're sexually assaulted by their male so-called "comrades" . Article https://www.nytimes.com/2021/08/03/magazine/military-sexual-assault.html

[WARNING EXTREMELY graphic content below]

Several years ago there was a female soldier named Lavena Johnson who was discovered dead , covered in injuries and had ACID burns to her vagina. She was certainly raped and killed by a scrote "comrade" . But the scrotres in power covered up her death and had the audacity to delcare her death a fucking suicide. Story here: https://www.salon.com/2008/06/27/lavena_johnson/

~ICE~C0LD~

Jul 27, 2023

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I'm putting the pieces together now. The domestic violence is a learned, enabled and normalized behavior in the military and it has nothing to do with the ptsd.

Makes sense. Like @polly said, soliders don't strangle each other. When men do it, it's usually porn and misogyny related.

I hate how lvm act like they should be immune to criticism or consequences just because they went though trauma.

It's not like misogynistic men are sympathetic towards trafficked sex workers, rape victims, women with abusive/absent fathers ect. The moment they find out a woman has a "high body count", has self harm scars, is a single mother, has a drug addiction or has an eating disorder they become so ruthless and judgmental. "She's for the streets" "She's toxic" "ew" "she's only good for a pump and dump." "Cringe" "MeN dOnT fInD tHaT AtTrAcRivE" "Fatherless behavior"

I've even seen memorial videos of women (and sometimes teen girls) that committed suicide and there would be multiple grown men in the comments saying stuff like "nothing of value lost." "Selfish" "Attention seeker"

Amanda todd is one example.

Because of her suicide men made "drink bleach" a meme... she died over a decade ago and men still act like the "drinking bleach" jokes are soooo funny and edgy. Can't people let her rest in peace already?

There were also the scrotes on 4chan that went out of their way to popularize the cutforbieber twitter hashtag to troll teenage girls.

Meanwhile women are like "How can I make my husband with ptsd feel better? I keep trying to be his therapist but he keeps attempting to murder me. Would I be a bad person if I divorced him? Is it mean to be honest with the emergency room staff? I'm afraid of making him look bad. I don't want to hurt his feelings."

Ughhhhhh. I never want to hear people say "men feel so unloved" "men never receive unconditional love" or "No one cares about mens mental health"

Blah blah blah blah ever again..

dolores

Jul 28, 2023

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You are absolutely right - and Lundy Bancroft covers this in his book ‘Why does he do that?’. That men are abusive because of the culture that tells them that it is ok to abuse women. In fact, abusive men generally dont come out of households with abusive moms - they often come from households with an abusive father who modelled abusive behaviour to his sons, by beating his wife.

Moussaka

Jul 26, 2023

A lot of the responses to that post reminds me of that time a woman was randomly stabbed by a man having an episode of some kind in a Walmart. The woman nearly died but thankfully survived. The man was eventually deemed okay to be set loose on the unsuspecting public, after he spent some time in a psych ward. This poor woman was pressured to meet with the man and accept his shitty apology. With cameras rolling so it can be aired on TV.

These men's wants get pioritized over the people they harm. I am so sick of seeing it.

"Oh, but it wasn't his fault, he didn't mean any harm! He's been through some shit! We can't stigmatize, we have to support them!" I don't give a shit! These men are not the only people on earth who have shit to deal with. Cry me a fucking river. I care about keeping everyone else, especially women, safe from being victimized by these men.

If I know it's deadly dangerous for someone to touch me in my sleep, I would lock myself away when it's time to go to sleep - I would pioritize keeping my loved one alive over what's convienent for me.

~ICE~C0LD~

Jul 26, 2023

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Funny how their argument is "We need to support and destigmatize people who have ptsd" To justify actively disrespecting, disregarding and profiting off her trauma

Unknown member

Jul 27, 2023

Why??? I was really (foolishly) hoping for some sanity in the comments of that post, but sure enough the first comment "Hey, my husband does the exact same thing, teehee!! 😜"

I feel for these women, I really do. My heart goes out to them. But WHY would you want to live like this? You want to spend the one precious life you have living in fear? For what??? I just don't get it.

Steelheart

Jul 27, 2023

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Ex-military wife here and OMG the wives are just RABID at times. Biggest pick-me's I've ever seen. At one point had one GO OFF on me at a party for talking to her husband when he asked me about the dish I had brought.

I admit that I married my ex-husband in a bit of a pick-me stage, when I thought I was getting too old to be loved and everyone around me was pushing me hard to settle down. I never should have agreed, but I had known him long before he was in the military and he kept the mask up long enough to get me trapped. Never again will I date military, even though that's the majority of men here.

Unknown member

Jul 28, 2023

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Damn. Thanks for sharing. I find women who go off on other women know their husbands are cheaters.

It's so scary that your ex-husband kept the mask up for years. Most scrotes slip up within weeks.

Steelheart

Jul 28, 2023

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I'd call him a master manipulator, and more of an exception than the rule. Most scrotes can't keep up the act for more than a few months, which is why I refuse to sleep with any of them or do anything sexual beyond some light snuggling and cheek-kissing for at least six months. There were small signs, but when I'd start heading away he'd straighten up and act right. He did this for about two years until he had me married to him and moved to the other side of the continent away from my support network, then he manufactured a huge fight with my family to push us apart. Most of the people we know were absolutely shocked when I went nuclear on him and provided the photos and proofs to the judge (who I am related to, small town southern USA lol, the ENTIRE COUNTY knew the truth within a couple days of that) so he would just grant the divorce I'd been fighting for for almost a year at that point after finding out he was using prostitutes while deployed.

HuldraAdventures

Jul 27, 2023

I wish society in general didn't view woman as so expendible that we're advised to put violent men above our own safety.

Unknown member

Jul 27, 2023

If these men are so violent prone that they can kill a woman at a moment’s notice for something as innocuous as tapping him on the shoulder…then shouldn’t they be separated from society all together?

I guess for me, it boils down to the same argument as when people say that men can’t understand consent or can’t resist assaulting a woman. If men “cannot help it”, then they cannot live in a free society. Jail or a secured mental facility would be a better option for them.

Spinster

Jul 27, 2023

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Ok. So I understand what they go through is traumatic. And maybe I don't have a good understanding of war induced PTSD.

But I do kinda wonder if she was to ever make him mad or upset, if he's strangle her again and say it's PTSD.

I don't think you can trust Military men or police men etc. they're always attacking their wives.

All those comments wirh women WHO HAVE CHILDREN that are just brushing it off because their husbands beat them up and strangle them too, are gross.

She should leave before he actually kills her. Those women in the comments should leave before their husbands kill them and the kids too.

flamelink7

Jul 27, 2023

Some choice comments from the thread

A friend of mine was engaged to an Iraq war vet and had the same PTSD. He also tried to kill my friend during one of his night terrors. He ended up getting a service dog, who he loved with all his heart. They were also advised to sleep in separate bedrooms. One night my friend heard a strange noise. She came out of her room to find he had snapped the dogs neck and was looking at her in a daze. He came out of it, saw what he did and flew home to his family who put him in inpatient care. My friend broke off the engagement. A decade or so later, he’s doing okay but neither of them got into any new relationships.

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/154tmmy/my_husband_almost_killed_me_last_night/jsqx5vd/ Poor dog. I'm glad the friend had the sense to leave that ticking time bomb before she became a statistic though.

I’m in the same position as your husband. I have night terrors from PTSD after multiple deployments as infantry. It sucks because I can’t control my actions while it’s going on. I have now attacked two women who I cared about. I also warned them about leaving me alone while I sleep but both forgot eventually. I punched one in the face and the second I was choking the life out of them before my brain snapped out of it. I can’t begin to describe how bad I felt. Both of them were terrified of me afterwards. I am 6’4” and also 250, they weren’t able to get me off of them. I stopped because I snapped out of it. I just keep to myself and don’t date anyone anymore.

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/154tmmy/my_husband_almost_killed_me_last_night/jsrw8md/

Hello! My husband does the same thing. When we had our son, I moved my husband to his own room. Sometimes I hear him screaming and I will sneak in, lock his door and then lock mine. He is on a ton of medication, sleeping medication, and sees his therapist weekly. Still he has these episodes sometimes. I often will just go and peak in on him before I go to bed to make sure he's ok and the slightest sound will wake him up. His most recent is he sat straight up, I was near his bed turning off a lamp, and he held his hand up in a pointed gun and held it to my head. I didn't say anything or touch him, just backed away and locked my door on the way out.If sleeping in different rooms, is an option, it has worked for me. He has gotten up sometimes and walked around the house and acting like he's holding a gun like he's looking for something, but he hasn't done that since I lock the doors.I don't know if the locked doors work to be honest. He could just unlock it on his side, but he hasn't came out of his room since..

My dad's a veteran, many years and many conflicts. I was raised to never touch him or wake him up from sleep. Never. It took me one mistake when I was 6. I woke him up by touching him. He threw me across the room so hard, I ended up breaking a solid wooden door with my body. But that wasn't my daddy. It was as if my daddy left his body, his eyes were cold, back animal like. I remember it like it was yesterday. My dad when he came back... Woke up was heartbroken. It completely tore him apart. My dad is now 86. I love him dearly. It wasn't him. It was the monster inside. Just remember it's not your husband, it's a separate monster. Call the VA get him in for help and you help. There's now (back when my dad served there wasn't help.) But now there's tons of resources for both of you.

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/154tmmy/my_husband_almost_killed_me_last_night/jstho5y/

I'm sorry this happened, to both of you. War is ugly and brutal, and the after effects aren't just experienced by the combatants.I had a similar experience when I was living w/a friend who's dad was a Vietnam vet. I had never seen him have an episode, but I had heard about how bad they could be.One night, I woke up really thirsty and went for a drink of water from the kitchen and saw my friend's dad just standing at the sink, staring off and swaying side to side. I called his name and also made the mistake of touching him on his shoulder (I had not received a warning to never touch him), and he turned around and flipped me onto my back and on the floor quicker than anything I had ever seen. He started choking me, and I was able to kick the kitchen chairs and table over, waking up my friend and her mom. They couldn't get him off of me, and at this point, he was banging my head against the floor screaming at me (later found out he was saying in Vietnamese 'Why won't you die!?' over and over again).And then, out of left field, their dog came running in and plowed into my friend's dad, kinda knocking him to the side a bit, which caused him to loosen his grip around my neck. Doggo was whining and barking and wiggled himself bw me and him, licking his face, and it was like he just came out of it. I saw him come back to himself, and he was beyond upset. He locked himself in the master bedroom (we were scared he was going to use the guns in there), but thankfully he came out of the room on his own after I came back from my friend drove me to urgent care.The bruises lasted for months, and he wouldn't even be in the same room as me after that. I was finally able to get a chance to talk w/him about it, and he apologized profusely. I told him I wasn't mad at him, and that I didn't think it was his fault. I blamed the people who sent him over there and who abandoned him and the other vets after they came back.

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/154tmmy/my_husband_almost_killed_me_last_night/jsr23ca/

Dude. He told you not to touch him. I have the same situation as he does and I feel bad for him -- now he has to carry that guilt around of what he did and worse, what he almost did. I wouldn't be surprised if he refused to sleep in the same room as you or anyone else ever again. The level of guilt and embarrassment and shame I have even without physically assaulting or confronting anyone is off the charts. He's got to be near suicidal.He was asleep and in the middle of an episode. You were awake, you knew you weren't supposed to touch him, and you touched him. Not saying this wasn't horrible for you, of course it was, but goddamn I feel bad for him too. He didn't consciously do anything wrong but you sort of did. Not wrong but... incorrect.

Ahh victim blaming

My husband is also a 5 tour veteran. We sleep in separate rooms for various reasons. Snoring, night terrors, ptsd, blanket hog, talking so angrily in his sleep. We started doing this back in 2006. It has made our relationship so much easier. No resentments on my part, no worry about what could happen on his. We still snuggle, we are still intimate, we are very happy with this arrangement. It's saved so many worries and fights and silent treatments over me not being able to get restful sleep due to his... whatever it may have been that night. We also had an episode like OP has been through. Back in 2004. He lifted me off the ground by my throat and almost slammed the back of my head in a nail that was sticking out of the wall. He was in a blind sleeping rage. I was trying to get him to move over, so yes, the touch is what set him from night terror into blind rage and on his feet and at my throat within hundredths of a second. We've had lots of therapy and have found the sleeping arrangemnt to be of utmost importance for our happiness.

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/154tmmy/my_husband_almost_killed_me_last_night/jssg9c4/

Unknown member

Jul 27, 2023

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Holy fuck. It sounds like it’s a badge of pride for these women, like they’re trying to outdo each other for who’s been violated the most.

Survivors of prostitution have PTSD at the same levels of war veterans. Why do we never hear about them strangling or abusing their partners? Gosh, I can’t think why.

Why is there so much strangling going on? Soldiers don’t strangle each other! They shoot the enemy or drop bombs on them. Strangling is from porn ffs, do these women really not know what’s going on here?

HuldraAdventures

Jul 27, 2023

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The one with abn infant son really got to me: this man is clearly unfit to even live in the same house as other people, but i'm sure everybody thought bringing a child into that situation would "help him".

AngéliqueMonique

Aug 11, 2023

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Okay that shitty comment yelling at her not to touch him when she said herself that she forgot… is so fucking…. UGH 😤

Smug nihilist

Jul 27, 2023

Call me cold hearted but I think he needed to use PTSD as an excuse to do fucked up shit and deliberately mumbled army jargon just to make her believe it. I bet he raped women like that while he was out at war and wanted to see if it worked at home.

Veteran woman literally never do that, they literally never muster up the strength to choke someone at morning wood time (when testosterone levels increase).

Let's say Im an asshole for assuming that, still literally just leave him. They're burdenous and dangerous without the PTSD

flamelink7

Jul 28, 2023

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I belive that too. He's just using "Muh ptsd" as an excuse to be an abusive jackass.

Even if he somehow literally couldn't control his actions then he belongs either in a nuthouse or prison. He's way too dangerous to be out in public.

It just blows my mind how coddled scrotes are. If a traumatized woman hypothetically ( highly unlikely)went out stabbing scrotes because "muh ptsd" , i bet these same redditors would be tearing her to shreds. Hell the stabbed scrotes wouldn't feel any sympathy or feel olbigated to stay with her.

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