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I see this a lot with strippers and onlyfans creators. Personally, I'm completely against sex work of any kind. Sugaring included. Because these industries fuel and encourage sex trafficking and treating women like products
But why are men blaming women for engaging in these professions when they're the ones creating the demand? They need to go cry to the other men paying for these services. Especially when men in higher power positions go to poor countries where women are forced into prostitution because they can't work.
It happens in gaming as well. I love to game, but I'm getting to a point where I can't add males anymore. Because they all start acting weird. I'm in multiple groups for my favorite games and sometimes I get people wanting join me but the guys ALWAYS end up simping or trying to hit on you
They drop their really good items for me and I noticed how they won't do the same for other guys on our team. I've seen guys accuse women of attention seeking for playing games and accuse us of feeling entitled to good items or expecting men to pay for battle passes.
I don't do that, I don't ask for help. And infact, I don't want help at all. I hate getting special treatment because it feels like they're undermining my skills. I've only ever bought and received battle passes for and from my other lady friends.
They also start trying to flirt and it's really fucking annoying. I don't even have a profile picture to look at and they STILL start flirting with me and trying to treat me like their girlfriend. I've seen guys in gaming groups specifically look for female teammates and ignore men.
Then they start whining that they can't find teammates and that only "female" get teammates. WHO'S FAULT IS THAT? They start hitting on any woman that talks to them and they ignore other men. Nobody wants to deal with that..
And don't get me started on their egos. Im tired of men trying to impress me while playing. Just play the fucking game. When they're not screaming taking the game far too seriously, they start peacocking and bragging about how good they are.
I'm about to block this guy who I added recently (big mistake from the beginning) because his game crashed and I won the match alone. Our other teammate died, and he got disconnected.
He apologized and I said it was fine because I won the match. Instead of being happy we won, he said "lil badass. I guess you didn't need me then". He was complaining the entire time, not listening to any cues I was giving, and was trying so hard to "kick ass" (his words) that he caused us to lose multiple times.
After this I'm only sticking to the female only groups when I look for teammates. I just have more fun with other women. You literally can't be around scrotes. They suck the fun out every and any situation
The answer to your question is simple. Men blame women for other men's simp behaviour because misogynists blame women for everything:
A man spends money he doesn't have on Only Fans or similar site. It's the woman's fault. She's an evil temptress and a gold-digger.
A man rapes a woman. Her fault for drinking too much/wearing a short skirt/walking alone at night.
A man's marriage ends because he cheated on his wife. It's the other woman's fault. She's a whore. Plus his wife was probably a bitch anyway.
Also I agree with your approach of sticking to female only groups. Unfortunately trying to be friends with men rarely works out for women.
the first rule of misogyny is that women are responsible for what men do